Jane & Mark’s Magical Two-Part Adare Manor Wedding

I always love planning an Adare Manor wedding, but from the start, I knew that Jane and Mark’s would be something special and unique. The couple met through mutual friends in Limerick and have lived in several countries since, but their love story always circled back to Ireland. When Mark proposed on a beach in Barbados at sunset, he’d already had the ring for eight months, just waiting for the perfect moment. That same care and thoughtfulness was reflected in their wedding planning. Instead of a standard wedding day, they dreamed of something deeply personal: an intimate ceremony and dinner on Friday with just close family, followed by a full-scale celebration for 350 guests on the Saturday. They wanted their wedding day to be about them and their reception to be all about their guests. The weekend was filled with warm sunshine, lush florals, fabulous food, and amazing entertainment. But most importantly, it was a mindful and meaningful start to their lives together.

Adare Manor is one of Ireland’s most iconic venues, but for Jane and Mark, it was more than just a beautiful location. Mark’s uncle owns the estate, so it was the perfect place to exchange vows, and the only venue they considered. From the fairytale manor house to the Michelin-starred dining and expansive French gardens, every inch of the property is pure magic. We used several of its most unique spaces across the weekend: the Oak Room terrace for the ceremony, the wine cellar for an intimate family dinner, and the Grand Ballroom and formal gardens for Saturday’s reception. Adare is a venue that can feel equally right for 16 guests or 350, and that’s exactly what Jane and Mark loved about it.

Jane and Mark saw their wedding ceremony as the most important part of the whole event. So on the first day of this Adare Manor wedding weekend, we focused on creating a setting for the vows that was worthy of the occasion. The glass-enclosed terrace of the Oak Room, with its stone colonnade overlooking the gardens, was filled with greenery and florals. The bride said that entering the space was like walking into a fairytale. After the couple promised forever in a handfasting ceremony, the families moved on to the cellar for a candlelit dinner. This space is usually used for wine tastings and with flowers and white votive candles adorning the marble-topped table, it was really intimate and atmospheric. With such a small guest list, it was all about connection, conversation, and savouring each moment – and every delicious course!

With the formalities complete, the next day was time to party! Guests were welcomed with live music from the New Brass Kings and Dublin Gospel Choir, clouds of greenery and baby’s breath, and a selection of food and drink stations. Tables, settees and pretty umbrellas dotted the geometric parterre gardens, while guests enjoyed cocktails in the sunshine.

Inside the manor house, the ballroom had been transformed into a dream scene with crystal chandeliers, white florals, and lush greenery. The musical lineup alone would rival a concert: Carly Coonagh Quartet, The Legends, The New Atlantics, and DJ Gordo. Jane wore a strapless lace midi dress and danced the night away with her groom and guests.

What made this Adare Manor wedding weekend so special was the way Jane and Mark honoured both ends of the scale: quiet, private moments alongside a large celebration. It’s a reminder that you can do both, beautifully. For couples considering something similar, I’d advise you to approach each day as its own event with its own feeling. It’s all about layering experiences for your guests. And don’t be afraid to use all the spaces your venue offers – for example, the contrast between the candlelit cellar and the soaring ballroom made each of these moments more memorable.

It was a joy to plan Jane and Mark’s wedding. Wishing them a lifetime of unforgettable celebrations!

Slán go Fóill,
Tara

Planner: Tara Fay Events | Venue: Adare Manor | Photography: John Cain Photography | Bridal Gowns: The Attic Bridal Boutique, Limerick | Ceremony Dress: Elbeth Gillis | Reception Dress: Alena Leena | Groom’s Suits: Louis Copeland & Sons, | Design: Silverthorn Productions | Florals: Harris & Wilkinson | Stationery: Grosvenor Stationery | Set, Stage & Lighting: Gorilla Design | Technical Production: KCLS | Marquee: Eventus | Stretch Tent: Extreme Structures | Rentals – Linens, Furniture & Bar: Total Event | Rentals: Caterhire – Limerick | Additional Furniture: Select Hire | Photo Parlour: Beatrice & Bertrum | Video: Odicci | Ceremony Music: Síbeal Ní Chasaide | Arrival Music: The Carly Coonagh Quartet | Brass Band: New Brass Kings | Choir: Dublin Gospel Choir | Band – The Legends: ALR Music | Band – New Atlantics: ALR Music | Piano: Maurice Culligan | DJ & Sax: Gordo | Cake: MM Cookies | Guest Transport: Leatours | Bridal Party – Hair & Makeup: FMN Bridal | Guest Hair & Makeup: Mandy O’Loughlin

 

 

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Incorporating Traditional Irish Wedding Vows into Your Ceremony

When planning a destination wedding in Ireland, weaving in cultural traditions can add a deeply personal and meaningful touch to your ceremony. One of the most beautiful ways to honour your Irish heritage is by including traditional Irish wedding vows. These vows, often inspired by ancient Celtic customs, carry poetic and heartfelt expressions of love, commitment, and unity. Whether you have Irish ancestry or simply appreciate the beauty of Irish traditions, including these vows will make your wedding ceremony truly memorable.

The Significance of Traditional Irish Wedding Vows

Unlike modern vows that can be extensively personalised, traditional Irish wedding vows have a poetic simplicity that reflects their ancient origins. Many are drawn from ancient Gaelic blessings, poetry, and folklore, reflecting the values of loyalty, devotion, and the enduring nature of love. Some couples choose to exchange their vows in English, while others embrace the lyrical beauty of the Irish language. These vows not only add a sense of history and romance, but also reflect the natural beauty and spiritual essence of Ireland itself.

An Example of Traditional Irish Wedding Vows

One of the most cherished sets of Irish vows is inspired by the ancient Celtic tradition of handfasting. (Although there are many other brilliant and beautiful Irish wedding traditions that are also worthy of consideration for your ceremony.) During this symbolic ritual, the couple’s hands are bound together with a ribbon or cord, representing their union. The vows themselves are beautifully poetic:

“You cannot possess me for I belong to myself
But while we both wish it, I give you that which is mine to give.
You cannot command me, for I am a free person
But I pledge to you that it will be your eyes into which I smile every morning,
It will be your lips that I kiss goodnight.
I pledge to you the first bite of my meat and the first drink from my cup.
I pledge to you my living and my dying, equally in your care.
I shall be a shield for your back and you for mine.
I shall not slander you, nor you me.
I shall honour you above all others,
And when we quarrel, we shall do so in private
And tell no strangers our grievances.
This is my wedding vow to you.
This is the marriage of equals.”

These words, rich in sentiment and symbolism, reflect the deep respect and partnership that define a marriage.

Incorporating Irish Traditions

Incorporating traditional Irish wedding vows into your ceremony is a wonderful way to celebrate Irish culture while creating a timeless, meaningful moment. As a wedding planner, I’m delighted to guide you through this heartfelt journey. Whether you opt for a full handfasting ritual or simply include a few lines in your ceremony, these vows are a poetic expression of love that will resonate with you and your guests for years to come. As you plan your Irish wedding, don’t be afraid to embrace the beauty of tradition. It will make your special day unforgettable. Here’s to a lifetime filled with love and happiness, inspired by the timeless traditions of Ireland.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by John Cain Photography