What is the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony?

Breathtaking weddings are steeped in Ireland’s history, culture, and enchantment. One of the most beautiful and symbolic Irish wedding traditions that many couples incorporate into their ceremonies is the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony. This age-old custom is not only a romantic nod to Ireland’s past but also a meaningful way to bless the couple’s union with love and harmony.

The Significance of Wedding Bells in Irish Tradition

Wedding bells have long been associated with Irish nuptials. Historically, the ringing of bells was believed to ward off evil spirits and ensure a marriage filled with good fortune. The bell’s chime was also thought to bring clarity and peace, reminding couples of their vows during times of difficulty. In modern weddings, this tradition has evolved into the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony—a heartfelt moment that adds a touch of magic and sentimentality to the celebration.

How the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony Works

During the ceremony, a small handbell—often crafted from fine silver or a family heirloom—is rung either by the officiant, the couple, or even their guests. This gentle chime symbolises the blessings of love, unity, and everlasting happiness. There are a few different ways to incorporate this tradition into a luxury wedding, and I often work with couples to personalise it to suit their style and preferences.

The Couple’s Bell Ringing: Just before or after exchanging vows, the couple rings the wedding bell together, symbolising their commitment and the joyful beginning of their life as one.

The Guests’ Blessing: Small bells can be distributed among guests, allowing them to ring them in celebration as the couple shares their first kiss or is pronounced married. This creates a stunning auditory experience, reminiscent of church bells ringing in the distance.

A Keepsake Bell: Many couples choose to have a specially designed wedding bell engraved with their names and wedding date, serving as a cherished keepsake that they can ring during anniversaries as a reminder of their vows.

Ringing Away Disputes: A charming interpretation of this tradition suggests that whenever a disagreement arises, ringing the wedding bell will bring harmony back to the marriage, reinforcing the values of love and understanding.

Incorporating Wedding Bells into an Irish Wedding

For couples seeking an exquisite destination wedding in Ireland, the Wedding Bell Ceremony adds a unique cultural and sentimental touch. I often recommend custom-made bells from renowned Irish artisans, featuring intricate Celtic designs, family crests, or even a touch of gold for added opulence. Some couples may choose to incorporate the bell motif into wedding stationery, table décor, or favours to further enhance this elegant theme.

At some of Ireland’s most luxurious wedding venues—think fairytale castles, stately manors, or coastal retreats—the gentle chime of wedding bells can beautifully echo through historic halls or open landscapes, making the moment truly unforgettable.

A Tradition That Stands the Test of Time

The Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony is a poetic and symbolic way to honour Irish heritage while embracing a timeless ritual of love and unity. What I love most about this tradition is knowing the sweet sound of wedding bells will forever resonate as a blessing upon your marriage. Here’s to your lifetime of harmony and happiness.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by John Cain Photography

Engage!25 Mallorca: An Immersive Retreat

As the Creative Director for Engage!25 Mallorca, I have the thrilling opportunity to craft an unforgettable experience for the most talented minds in the wedding and event industry from around the world. This is my third time partnering with this incredible organization (and my first outside of Ireland). Engage!25 is an intimate gathering focused on strengthening meaningful connections between 125 like-minded luxury global event industry leaders. I was the previous Creative Director for Engage!22 Ireland and Engage!18 Ireland and I could not be more excited to be back! It’s an honour and a challenge to design an event that reflects the stunning beauty of a place like Mallorca while inspiring this group of creative professionals to push the boundaries of luxury event design. If you’re in the industry, I hope you’ll join me on this journey!

Mallorca’s Magic

Mallorca offers an incredible canvas for this event. Hosted by Four Seasons Resort Mallorca at Formentor, the pristine beaches, breathtaking vistas, and vibrant culture are sure to provide endless inspiration. Opened in 1929, this inspirational retreat has always attracted writers, actors, and the global elite. Recreational options abound. Hiking, biking, or boating. Dining, swimming, or exploring the glamorous and chic spa. Four Seasons blends poetic charm and heartfelt service, embodying the Spanish passion for hospitality.

Creative Inspiration at Every Turn

As I envisioned the event, I wanted to ensure that Engage!25 Mallorca emphasized personal development and professional growth (mixed with FUN!). This isn’t just a conference but a fully immersive journey, featuring professional facilitation and peer-led discussions.  From the moment guests arrive, they will be greeted by the warm Mediterranean breeze, setting the tone for what will be an extraordinary few days.

As always, Engage!25 guests will participate in peer-led discussions related to their unique businesses, enjoy delectable group dining experiences, take part in wellness journeys, focus on relaxation and restoration, and engage in various adventures at the resort and the surrounding locale. It’s a time for our industry to reconnect, relax, regroup, and reinvigorate ourselves to be better for our future clients…all while learning and growing.

And one of the ways we learn and grow is by experiencing. It’s my job to bring to life the best and brightest new ideas for events in this region. From culinary presentations to over-the-top decor ideas, the visuals of Engage! do not disappoint. We’ll celebrate and experience together in ways we’ve never seen before. Each day, a little something different.

Crafting the Guest Experience

And each day at Engage!25 Mallorca is designed intentionally to feature keynote speeches, workshops, and interactive sessions designed to inspire and educate. The event provides incredible opportunities for teams to connect with industry leaders, fellow planners, and creative professionals from around the globe in a collaborative atmosphere. We explore new trends, refine techniques, and forge collaborative partnerships that transcend borders. And that includes the parties too.

One of the main pillars of this experience is celebrating the rich culture of Mallorca and this one-of-a-kind destination. A seamless guest experience is the key to any successful event. For Engage!25, I’ve taken extra care to ensure that every detail, from transportation to accommodation, exudes the luxurious yet relaxed feel of Mallorca. Guests will be staying at one of the island’s most opulent properties, offering a unique blend of Mallorcan tradition and modern luxury.

At Engage!25 Mallorca, my role is to ensure the creativity of our community is reflected in every detail, offering guests an unparalleled experience that will leave them with lasting memories—and plenty of valuable connections with their like-minded and talented peers. Just like at Engage!22 Ireland, each attendee will have the freedom to craft their Engage! experience to their exact preferences.  It’s an incredible opportunity so don’t miss out. To learn more about this unique retreat, check out the event page here. I look forward to meeting you there.

Slán go Fóill,
Tara

Destination Wedding Trends for 2025

The world of destination weddings continues to evolve, with couples in 2025 seeking bespoke experiences that reflect their personalities while embracing the unique allure of their chosen locations. As a luxury wedding planner, I’ve observed some captivating trends shaping the year ahead. If you’re planning a celebration that hits all the destination wedding trends for 2025, let me get you started with my predictions for the coming year.

Hybrid Celebrations

Hybrid weddings are on the rise, with couples merging the convenience of virtual participation with the intimacy of in-person celebrations. For destination weddings, this allows loved ones unable to travel to be part of the day through live streams or interactive virtual activities, ensuring everyone feels included.

Immersive Cultural Experiences

2025 couples are drawn to destinations that allow them and their guests to delve into the local culture. This goes beyond the setting—think intimate cooking classes, guided tours of historic landmarks, or even a traditional blessing as part of the ceremony. A wedding in Tuscany might include a pre-wedding vineyard tour, while an Irish castle celebration could feature a harpist playing Celtic melodies during dinner.

Eco-Conscious Celebrations

Sustainability is no longer just a buzzword; it’s a core value for modern couples. Eco-conscious destination weddings are growing in popularity, with couples opting for locally sourced menus, seasonal flowers, and venues that prioritise sustainability. Many are choosing locations that champion green initiatives, from eco-lodges to venues with renewable energy programmes.

Weeklong Weddings

Destination weddings are evolving into full-scale holiday experiences. Instead of one or two days, many couples are hosting weeklong celebrations. This trend is especially popular in picturesque locations like Santorini or the Amalfi Coast, where couples plan multi-day itineraries: welcome dinners, sightseeing excursions, sunset cocktail hours, and post-wedding brunches. These longer stays foster deeper connections among guests while maximising the destination experience.

Destination-Inspired Décor

Couples are increasingly weaving their destination into every detail of the wedding. This can be as subtle as menu cards adorned with illustrations of local landmarks or as bold as a reception space designed to mimic the destination’s natural beauty. In Provence, this might mean tablescapes featuring lavender and olive branches; in Marrakech, it could be Moroccan lanterns and intricate textiles.

Vibrant Colour Palettes

Neutral tones have dominated weddings in recent years, but 2025 is ushering in a renaissance of colour. Couples are embracing vibrant palettes that reflect the essence of their chosen location. Think coral and turquoise for a tropical beach wedding, rich emeralds and golds for a ceremony in an Irish forest, or terracotta and mustard hues for a Spanish vineyard celebration.

Personalised Guest Experiences

2025 couples are going above and beyond to ensure their guests feel cherished. Welcome gifts are evolving into curated keepsakes inspired by the destination—a handmade pottery piece in Greece or locally distilled whiskey in Ireland. These thoughtful touches elevate the guest experience, leaving a lasting impression.

After-Parties with a Twist

The celebration doesn’t stop at the reception. Destination weddings are embracing unique after-parties, such as bonfires on the beach, silent discos in historic ruins, or stargazing soirées in desert locales. These innovative experiences add another layer of magic to the festivities.

Destination weddings in 2025 are about more than just exchanging vows in a picturesque setting—they’re about creating unforgettable moments that resonate deeply with couples and their loved ones. With these trends, your celebration will be nothing short of extraordinary. (Ps. Just because it’s a new year, doesn’t mean last years trends aren’t relevant. You might find some more inspiration here: Destination Wedding Trends for 2024)

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Anée Atelier

Cheese as a Wedding Cake – A Luxurious Twist

As a luxury wedding planner in Ireland, I’ve seen my fair share of trends come and go (and I talk about some of my favourites in this article on PopSugar), but one that has taken hold in recent years is the delightful and unexpected trend of using cheese as a wedding cake. This indulgent alternative to the traditional sweet cake is perfect for couples who want to offer something unique and memorable at their wedding reception. With the rise of farm-to-table dining and a renewed appreciation for artisanal Irish produce, cheese towers have become a symbol of luxury, sophistication, and a celebration of Ireland’s rich culinary heritage.

A Bespoke Culinary Experience

What makes a cheese wedding cake so alluring is its ability to offer a completely bespoke experience. Unlike traditional cakes, where you may be limited by flavour profiles and decoration, a cheese tower allows for endless customisation. As a planner, I work closely with artisan cheese suppliers to curate a selection that reflects not only the couple’s taste preferences but also their story.

Many Irish couples enjoy incorporating local cheeses into their tower, paying homage to Ireland’s world-renowned dairy industry. A typical tower might feature rich Cashel Blue from Tipperary, a smooth and creamy St Tola goat’s cheese from County Clare, and a strong, crumbly Cahill’s Porter cheese, which adds both flavour and visual intrigue with its marbled appearance. For couples wishing to indulge their guests further, I recommend adding imported cheeses to complement the Irish offerings—perhaps a delicate French Brie or a robust Manchego.

Designing the Perfect Cheese Cake

Just like a traditional wedding cake, a cheese cake can be a showstopping centrepiece. As a luxury wedding planner, my role is to ensure that the cheese tower is not only delicious but also visually stunning. Each cheese wheel is carefully chosen for its shape, colour, and texture, crafting a tiered masterpiece that rivals any confection. Garnishing the cheese tower with fresh fruits, figs, berries, and even edible flowers can add vibrant splashes of colour, while rustic elements like fresh herbs or leaves provide a natural, organic feel.

For couples desiring an extra touch of opulence, I often suggest pairing the cheese tower with artisanal breads, crackers, and a selection of chutneys and honey. A beautifully designed grazing table featuring these accompaniments, along with cured meats and pâté, creates an interactive dining experience where guests can serve themselves throughout the evening.

A Unique Take on Tradition

One of the most appealing aspects of a cheese wedding cake is its ability to turn tradition on its head without sacrificing elegance. Many couples like to keep the ceremonial cutting of the cake, but instead of the classic sweet slice, they slice into a large wheel of cheese. This can be a fun and memorable moment for the couple, and it invites guests to partake in a one-of-a-kind culinary experience. As an alternative, I often suggest serving the cheese cake alongside a more traditional dessert table, offering both sweet and savoury options to guests.

Pairing the Cheese Cake with Wine

A cheese wedding cake is more than just a savoury treat; it can also become an integral part of a couple’s overall dining experience. As part of my planning services, I often collaborate with expert sommeliers to pair each tier of the cheese cake with wines that enhance and complement the flavours. Whether it’s a crisp Sauvignon Blanc to cut through the richness of a Brie or a full-bodied Bordeaux to pair with a mature cheddar, these pairings can elevate the dining experience and add another layer of luxury.

The Perfect Ending to a Wedding Feast

In Ireland, where the landscape lends itself to exceptional dairy produce, a cheese wedding cake is the perfect way to honour local craftsmanship while adding a luxurious twist to a couple’s big day. Whether used as a savoury centrepiece or incorporated into an elaborate grazing table, this trend is a testament to how versatile and sophisticated Irish weddings can be.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Brosnan Photographic and Aspect Photography

2025 Destination Wedding Location Ideas: Luxury Celebrations in Portugal, Mallorca, and Ireland

As a luxury wedding planner, one of my greatest joys is curating unforgettable experiences in some of the most stunning locations across Europe. For couples seeking the perfect destination to say “I do” in 2025, there are many options that offer unparalleled beauty, charm, and bespoke opportunities to make your special day truly extraordinary. Let me guide you through a few of my favourite 2025 destination wedding location ideas.

Portugal: Sun-kissed Elegance

Portugal continues to captivate couples with its warm climate, golden coastlines, and rich cultural heritage. For 2025, the Algarve’s sun-drenched beaches remain a timeless choice, but Lisbon and Sintra are emerging as luxury wedding hot spots. (Here are some I think are brilliant.)

When you think Portugal, think Lisbon. Historic palaces and chic rooftop venues overlooking the city’s iconic terracotta rooftops create the perfect backdrop for a cosmopolitan celebration. Sintra, with its fairy-tale castles such as the Palácio de Pena, create a romantic and whimsical setting amidst lush, rolling hills.

One unique trend I’ve seen is incorporating Portugal’s famous gastronomy into the wedding menu. Fresh seafood, pastel de nata desserts, and world-class wines. A live Fado performance adds a soulful touch. These are the kinds of memories that guests will treasure forever.

Mallorca: Mediterranean Bliss

Mallorca, the crown jewel of the Balearic Islands, is a haven for couples dreaming of a sun-soaked wedding with a touch of glamour. This Mediterranean paradise combines natural beauty with sophisticated luxury. Imagine exchanging vows at a clifftop villa overlooking the azure sea or hosting a reception in a historic finca nestled among olive groves and vineyards. The island’s luxury hotels offer impeccable service and exclusivity for couples wanting a flawless experience.

For 2025, consider embracing Mallorca’s bohemian-chic vibe. Decor inspired by the island’s natural palette—terracotta, creamy whites, and lush greens—pairs beautifully with al fresco dining under twinkling fairy lights. Serve your guests local delicacies like sobrassada and ensaïmada, paired with Mallorcan wines. You can’t go wrong in Mallorca.

Ireland: Timeless Romance

Ireland’s romantic allure will forever make it one of the best destination wedding locations. In 2025, it continues to enchant couples who desire an elegant wedding steeped in tradition and natural beauty. In Ireland, there are so many options to consider. Imagine a ceremony in the grandeur of a castle like Ashford or Adare, followed by a reception in a stately ballroom adorned with cascading floral arrangements. For those seeking something more intimate, a clifftop vow exchange offers breathtaking views and timeless wonder for all who attend.

One trend gaining momentum in Ireland is the use of seasonal touches that celebrate the country’s rich heritage—autumn weddings featuring warm, earthy tones and hearty menus, or spring ceremonies bursting with wildflowers and fresh, local fare. (Much like Aimee and Shane’s autumn wedding at Adare Manor.)

Why Choose One? Combine Them!

For couples truly seeking a once-in-a-lifetime experience, a multi-destination wedding is a rising trend. Begin with a chic civil ceremony in Lisbon, host a pre-wedding soirée in Mallorca, and conclude with a grand celebration in an Irish castle. The possibilities are as limitless as your imagination.

Each of these 2025 destination wedding location ideas offers a unique canvas for your dream day. Let’s make it extraordinary together!

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Story of Eve and Anée Atelier

You’re Engaged! Here’s How to Begin Planning Your Dream Destination Wedding

Congratulations, you’re engaged! That sparkling ring marks the beginning of one of life’s most enchanting adventures: planning your wedding. For couples dreaming of a destination wedding, the excitement is amplified by the allure of saying “I do” in a faraway place. However, when you’re engaged and planning a destination wedding, you’ll soon realize it’s no small feat! That’s where I come in as your luxury wedding planner. Let me guide you through the initial steps to turn your dream into reality.

Step One: Envision Your Dream Destination

Start by imagining the location that speaks to your hearts as a couple. Is it the romance of Italy’s Amalfi Coast, the charm of a French château, or the timeless beauty of an Irish castle? Perhaps you’re dreaming of tropical shores or a secluded mountain retreat. Your chosen destination sets the tone for your wedding, so ensure it reflects your personality and love story.

Consider the logistical aspects: Is the location accessible for your guests? Does it have the infrastructure to host a wedding of your desired scale? A wedding planner like myself, with destination expertise, will provide invaluable insights into these questions, helping you make a well-informed decision.

Step Two: Create a Vision and Budget

Every luxury wedding begins with a clear vision. Do you picture an opulent celebration dripping in florals or a more intimate gathering with understated elegance? Collaborate with your planner to craft a cohesive style, incorporating elements that resonate with you—whether it’s bespoke invitations, artisan catering, or live entertainment.

Equally important is understanding that a luxury wedding is an investment, and having clarity on where to allocate resources ensures your priorities are met. Your planner will help you identify costs unique to destination weddings, such as travel logistics, accommodations, and local vendor fees.

Step Three: Build Your Guest List

Destination weddings often lend themselves to more intimate guest lists, as not everyone will be able to travel. Consider creating a “VIP” list of essential attendees. Communicate your plans early, allowing guests ample time to make arrangements. A thoughtfully crafted wedding website can be an excellent resource for sharing itineraries, travel details, and accommodations.

Step Four: Partner with a Local Expert

A luxury destination wedding requires impeccable coordination. As your wedding planner, I work with a trusted network of local vendors who understand the nuances of your chosen destination. Whether that is securing a stunning venue or navigating local marriage laws and customs, my expertise ensures a seamless experience. I also serve as your advocate, ensuring that cultural and logistical elements blend harmoniously with your vision.

Step Five: Plan an Unforgettable Experience

A destination wedding is not just a single-day event—it’s a journey for you and your guests. Consider curating a multi-day celebration. Think welcome cocktails overlooking the cliffs of Moher, a rehearsal dinner featuring regional cuisine, and post-wedding activities like guided tours or spa retreats. These moments create cherished memories for you and your loved ones.

Step Six: Trust the Process

When you’re engaged and planning a destination wedding you may find yourself feeling overwhelmed, but take heart! It’s a journey worth savouring. With the right team by your side, every detail is thoughtfully handled. From scouting venues to finalising floral arrangements, I’ll ensure that the experience is as enjoyable as the day itself.

Your engagement marks the start of an extraordinary chapter. Let’s craft a destination wedding that’s as unique and unforgettable as your love story.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Story of Eve