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Clodagh & Benjamin’s Elegant Cashel Palace Wedding with Old-World Charm

October 28, 2025July 16, 2025 by Harmony Walton

Clodagh and Benjamin’s Cashel Palace wedding was a beautiful fusion of timeless elegance, heartfelt Irish traditions, and warm personal touches. Although they live in New York City, this dynamic couple chose to host their celebration in Ireland, where both families have roots and Clodagh’s side enjoys a long-standing connection to the countryside. From the start, they envisioned a wedding weekend that felt more like a country house party than a formal event – warm, gracious, and effortlessly elegant. The weekend unfolded at Cashel Palace in County Tipperary, with guests travelling from around the world. For many it was their first taste of Irish hospitality, and what a welcome they received!

Cashel Palace is a restored Palladian manor house that offers historical beauty balanced with modern, five-star hospitality. It was only the second venue the couple visited, but once they stepped foot on the grounds, they knew it was the one! Having booked out the property for the weekend, Clodagh and Benjamin treated their guests to a range of country activities, including fly-fishing, golf, kayaking, archery, and walks to the nearby Rock of Cashel. The wedding weekend began with a rehearsal dinner at the hotel’s Michelin-starred restaurant, The Bishop’s Buttery. This was followed by a welcome party with spritzes from an Aperol tuk tuk in the walled garden.

The venue also featured heavily in the stationery for the event. The invitation suite featured artwork from Cashel Palace, and the itinerary booklet featured an antique etching of the Rock of Cashel. A floret used throughout the paper goods was also recreated from the decal utilised throughout the venue’s ballroom.

In true Irish form, the day of the wedding delivered four seasons in one, with a bit of rain just before the ceremony for luck, followed by bursts of sun, dramatic clouds, and golden afternoon light. The ceremony took place in a nearby church, styled with formal arrangements of white flowers and trailing greenery. Clodagh arrived in a 1930s-style Brenchley convertible, wearing a bespoke Phillipa Lepley gown and a lace-edged chapel-length veil. Her classic chignon and pearl-and-diamond earrings completed the look.

The couple also added some special touches to the ceremony itself, including a traditional Irish ring warming. The rings were passed through the pews before the bride’s arrival so that each guest could imbue them with their well wishes. It was a heartfelt moment that made the vows feel all the more meaningful. After the ceremony, guests joined the newlyweds for a joyful procession through the town, led by a piper. Locals came out to cheer them on – one of those delightfully spontaneous moments that only happen in Ireland.

The couple portraits included a detour through nearby cow fields, where the couple posed at the magical 12th-century Hore Abbey, with the Rock of Cashel rising behind them. The dramatic setting, combined with a few good laughs and a bit of mud, resulted in some of the couple’s favourite moments of the entire weekend.

The reception décor was inspired by Irish and English gardens, a mix of formality and wild, organic beauty. The Tara Fay team transformed the ballroom space so that it evoked an orangerie with trees and lavender bushes scattered throughout and a custom stage backdrop of 18th century pastoral murals. Taking their cue from an old world dinner party, the long tables were dressed in pale blue cloths with cream floral detailing. Napkins embroidered with the couple’s custom crest were tied with duck egg blue velvet ribbons with hand-calligraphed names. The florals were lush arrangements of blooms, with moss and fruit spilling out onto the tables. Tall tapered candles cast soft tree shadows on the walls, heightening the illusion of dining in a garden. Each table number featured a vintage botanical print of a flower representing a place significant to the couple’s story, with fun facts on the back for guests to discover.

The couple’s love of good food and thoughtful hosting was woven throughout the weekend. One of the highlights was the oyster and Guinness bar during cocktail hour, as a nod to Clodagh’s family’s home in Waterford, which overlooks an oyster farm. Later in the evening, guests were treated to a wedding cake made of stacked wheels of cheese, beautifully decorated with fresh fruit and set on a moss-covered table. The dance floor opened with a classic first dance, followed by a night of music and merriment. The best kind of country house celebration!

It was a true joy to bring Clodagh and Benjamin’s Cashel Palace wedding to life. From the wild beauty of the Irish countryside to the quiet elegance of their details, every moment felt like a page out of a storybook. Wishing them many more adventures together!

Slán go Fóill,
Tara

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Haunted Hosts: Extravagant Halloween Parties in Ireland

October 21, 2025March 18, 2025 by Harmony Walton

Ireland, the birthplace of Samhain—the ancient Celtic festival that inspired modern-day Halloween—offers an unmatched opportunity to host the most opulent Halloween celebrations. The country’s long history, spooky landscapes, and chilling tales of spirits make it the perfect location for those looking to throw an unforgettable and lavish Halloween party. With help from Ireland’s premier party ‘ghoul’, a reservation at one of our legendary haunted castles or its atmospheric estates, and the creative ideas below, your guests will never stop talking about the time they attended one of the most extravagant Halloween parties in Ireland.

A Haunted Castle for the Night

What better way to celebrate Halloween than to rent out one of Ireland’s notorious haunted castles? Leap Castle, often cited as one of the most haunted castles in Europe, offers a chilling experience that’s perfect for a Halloween party. This 15th-century castle is steeped in dark history, with tales of betrayal, murder, and the haunting spirits that remain within its stone walls. Splurge on lavish decorations to turn the already spooky atmosphere into a haunted wonderland. Think candlelit corridors, cobweb-draped chandeliers, and tables adorned with gothic candelabras.

Indulge your guests by hiring a gourmet catering service to serve an elaborate feast featuring local Irish delicacies paired with vintage wines, ensuring your guests have both an eerie and enchanting experience. After dinner, there are so many ways to make the entertainment equally spine-tingling. Arrange for ghost tours or storytelling sessions by local experts who can recount chilling legends of the castle’s past.

A Ghostly Experience on the Antrim Coast

Perched on the rugged Antrim coast, Ballygally Castle is not only known for its luxurious amenities but also for its resident ghost, Lady Isabella Shaw, who is said to roam the halls. In this circumstance, I suggest renting out the entire castle for the night and hosting a Halloween soirée that blends history, elegance, and just the right amount of fright.

Transform the castle’s grand rooms into themed spaces such as a Victorian séance parlour or a witch’s banquet hall. To elevate the experience, hire live performers to entertain your guests with eerie music or theatre performances. Ballygally Castle’s seaside location also offers the opportunity for a late-night bonfire on the beach, where guests can gather for ghost stories and toasted sweets.

A Gothic Halloween Ball

For those who dream of a Halloween party that exudes elegance and gothic charm, I know just where to take you. Kinnitty Castle, located at the foothills of the Slieve Bloom Mountains, provides the perfect setting. This 13th-century castle’s imposing towers and dimly lit halls are ideal for hosting a grand gothic ball. Encourage your guests to dress in elaborate costumes—think Victorian vampires, gothic aristocrats, or enchanted forest creatures—to add a mystical element to the evening.

Inside the castle, create a variety of themed rooms for your guests to explore, such as a haunted library or a vampire’s lair. Don’t forget – a live orchestra or a DJ spinning eerie tunes can provide the soundtrack to the evening, while a gourmet dinner paired with craft cocktails and fine wines ensures the evening remains truly indulgent. Make sure to invite the bravest of guests because the nearby haunted woods offer an ideal setting for a heart-racing midnight walk.

Final Touches for Your Lavish Halloween Party

For added grandeur, consider offering a personalised invitation in the form of wax-sealed scrolls delivered to your guests. Hire luxury transportation to ferry them to your chosen location, and don’t forget to provide unique party favours. May I suggest personalised bottles of Irish whiskey to keep the liquid courage strong all night long! Extravagant Halloween parties in Ireland are the kind of spellbinding event that your guests will remember for the rest of their lives … and possibly into their afterlives, as well.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Leap Castle

The Best Season for a Destination Wedding in Ireland (It’s Not What You Think)

October 7, 2025July 16, 2025 by Harmony Walton

Ask most couples to name the best time to tie the knot in Ireland, and they’ll likely say summer. The long daylight hours, lush countryside, and the possibility of blue skies tend to sway opinion. But here’s the truth: the best season for a destination wedding in Ireland is autumn.

That’s right — autumn (or fall, as my American couples would say). From mid-September through early November, the Emerald Isle offers a depth and sophistication that you won’t quite find at any other time of year. Summer may be bright, but it’s also hectic. Venues are at capacity, vendors are stretched thin, and prices rise with the temperature. In contrast, autumn provides peace, availability, and a palette so rich it practically sets the mood for you.

Ireland in autumn is earthy tones of ochre, copper, and deep forest green. Vineyards and country estates are awash with ivy and moss in their seasonal prime. The landscape becomes a living oil painting. It’s a dream backdrop for photos. No filters required!

This time of year also brings culinary delights. Ireland’s harvest shines in autumn with wild mushrooms, root vegetables, apples, and ripe blackberries. Your wedding menu becomes a gourmet experience. Autumn means welcome drinks by an open hearth (spiced cider, perhaps?) followed by dishes of locally grown produce, finished with wildflower garnishes or tangy elderberry syrup.

And then, there’s the fashion. Autumn weddings lend themselves beautifully to brilliant attire. Brides can wear sleeves or structured gowns without concern for overheating. Grooms and groomsmen look sharp in tweeds and textured fabrics. Guests feel chic in velvet, wool, and layered ensembles that balance comfort with formality. Even floral design becomes more artistic, with dried elements, foraged textures, and moody dahlias or heirloom roses.

Let’s not sidestep the weather. Irish rain, while persistent in every season, becomes part of the ambience in autumn. A soft mist on castle grounds, puddles reflecting the gray sky, and the scent of damp leaves create the sense of an intimate storybook romance. When you plan with the elements in mind, with elements like stylish umbrellas, indoor ceremony options, and soft and cosy throws for guests, you’ll feel prepared rather than compromised. That preparedness becomes part of the experience.

From a practical perspective, autumn weddings also mean better access to your dream team of suppliers. The busiest months have passed, allowing planners, photographers, and caterers to give more focused attention to your celebration. Popular venues are more likely to have space, and you might even secure preferred pricing or complimentary enhancements that summer couples never see.

Couples who marry in autumn often reflect on how naturally everything came together. Fewer tourists means your guests have a more authentic experience of Ireland. It’s a season that rewards those who don’t follow the crowd. Cosy pubs, coastal walks wrapped in scarves, and evenings spent around fires make it feel like a wedding and a holiday all in one. Less stress, more comfort, and a stillness to the season that lends itself to connection.

So if you’re dreaming of an elegant wedding that feels rich, distinctive and true to the spirit of Ireland, consider autumn. It’s not the obvious choice – and that’s precisely the point.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Peter Carvill

Incorporating Traditional Irish Wedding Vows into Your Ceremony

September 30, 2025July 16, 2025 by Harmony Walton

When planning a destination wedding in Ireland, weaving in cultural traditions can add a deeply personal and meaningful touch to your ceremony. One of the most beautiful ways to honour your Irish heritage is by including traditional Irish wedding vows. These vows, often inspired by ancient Celtic customs, carry poetic and heartfelt expressions of love, commitment, and unity. Whether you have Irish ancestry or simply appreciate the beauty of Irish traditions, including these vows will make your wedding ceremony truly memorable.

The Significance of Traditional Irish Wedding Vows

Unlike modern vows that can be extensively personalised, traditional Irish wedding vows have a poetic simplicity that reflects their ancient origins. Many are drawn from ancient Gaelic blessings, poetry, and folklore, reflecting the values of loyalty, devotion, and the enduring nature of love. Some couples choose to exchange their vows in English, while others embrace the lyrical beauty of the Irish language. These vows not only add a sense of history and romance, but also reflect the natural beauty and spiritual essence of Ireland itself.

An Example of Traditional Irish Wedding Vows

One of the most cherished sets of Irish vows is inspired by the ancient Celtic tradition of handfasting. (Although there are many other brilliant and beautiful Irish wedding traditions that are also worthy of consideration for your ceremony.) During this symbolic ritual, the couple’s hands are bound together with a ribbon or cord, representing their union. The vows themselves are beautifully poetic:

“You cannot possess me for I belong to myself
But while we both wish it, I give you that which is mine to give.
You cannot command me, for I am a free person
But I pledge to you that it will be your eyes into which I smile every morning,
It will be your lips that I kiss goodnight.
I pledge to you the first bite of my meat and the first drink from my cup.
I pledge to you my living and my dying, equally in your care.
I shall be a shield for your back and you for mine.
I shall not slander you, nor you me.
I shall honour you above all others,
And when we quarrel, we shall do so in private
And tell no strangers our grievances.
This is my wedding vow to you.
This is the marriage of equals.”

These words, rich in sentiment and symbolism, reflect the deep respect and partnership that define a marriage.

Incorporating Irish Traditions

Incorporating traditional Irish wedding vows into your ceremony is a wonderful way to celebrate Irish culture while creating a timeless, meaningful moment. As a wedding planner, I’m delighted to guide you through this heartfelt journey. Whether you opt for a full handfasting ritual or simply include a few lines in your ceremony, these vows are a poetic expression of love that will resonate with you and your guests for years to come. As you plan your Irish wedding, don’t be afraid to embrace the beauty of tradition. It will make your special day unforgettable. Here’s to a lifetime filled with love and happiness, inspired by the timeless traditions of Ireland.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by John Cain Photography

Modern Irish Wedding Traditions for Luxury Destination Weddings

September 23, 2025July 16, 2025 by Harmony Walton

Ireland is steeped in lore, music, and ritual. It truly is a dream backdrop for a romantic destination wedding. But today’s couples want more than just sentiment—they seek experiences that feel personal and refined. Fortunately, the richness of Irish tradition pairs beautifully with modern elegance. Here’s how to reimagine time-honoured customs for a luxurious celebration that still feels uniquely Irish.

A Ceremony Rooted in Myth and Meaning

The ancient Celtic Handfasting ritual stands as one of Ireland’s most beloved marriage customs. The traditional practice of handfasting symbolised a marriage union long before its modern revival. Instead of coarse rope or rustic cord, consider using silk ribbons, handwoven in your wedding colours, and embroidered with your names or a meaningful phrase. The celebrant should explain the historical background of the ritual to guests before the binding ceremony to make the moment more meaningful and intentional.

The Warming of the Ring ritual is another lovely revived tradition. The wedding bands are passed from guest to guest for people to infuse them with their good wishes. A personalised version of this tradition involves placing the rings in an heirloom box at a welcome table so guests can offer blessings at their convenience, thus beginning your day with a quiet, meaningful start.

Music That Moves

Irish music evokes emotion like few others. Instead of a traditional céilí, elevate the experience with a string quartet playing instrumental arrangements of Irish ballads or a solo harpist welcoming guests as they arrive. A private concert after dinner, featuring a modern folk singer or acoustic band, can serve as a sophisticated nod to Ireland’s musical heritage.

Fashion with a Nod to the Past

In ancient Irish tradition, brides wore blue as a symbol of purity. A modern interpretation could include sapphire shoes, aquamarine earrings, or a pale blue sash woven into the gown. The groom could wear Celtic knot cufflinks or a tailored jacket with Irish tweed lining. These touches allow for subtle storytelling through design without compromising contemporary style.

A Feast Worthy of Legends

Hospitality has always been central to Irish culture, and the wedding feast is no exception. The menu should honour local ingredients through sophisticated preparations including, for example, Atlantic coast scallops, wild mushroom risotto with foraged herbs, or dry-aged beef with red wine jus. Rare Irish whiskeys and elegant mead cocktails made with honey and citrus could accompany the meal to provide a playful historical touch.

Gifts and Favours With Depth

Instead of traditional wedding favours, consider giving guests items that hold personal significance, such as small Irish cream liqueur bottles, beeswax candles, or Irish blessings written on handmade paper. The tradition of beeswax candles as a symbol of warmth and ritual now represents the guiding light for a couple to begin their new life together. The handmade paper represents Ireland’s artistic traditions, which makes each blessing unique and permanent. These tokens feel purposeful and tie back to the country’s creative spirit.

Reimagining Irish wedding traditions doesn’t mean abandoning the past. It’s about blending the soul of the old with the sophistication of the new—creating a wedding that feels both timeless and entirely your own. In Ireland, where the land itself seems to hum with history, modern couples can craft a celebration that honours tradition while indulging in their own vision of luxury.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Cinzia Bruschini

How to Host a Destination Wedding Welcome Dinner in Ireland

September 16, 2025July 16, 2025 by Harmony Walton

Ireland’s breathtaking landscapes and rich heritage make it an unforgettable place to say “I do.” Before your wedding day, a well-planned welcome dinner offers a wonderful opportunity to gather your favourite people and ease into the festivities. With the right setting, food, and atmosphere, this evening can become one of the most heartfelt moments of your celebration.

Choose a Memorable Setting

Choose a venue that embodies Ireland’s charm and matches your wedding style. This could look like a snug lodge in the hills, a centuries-old estate, or a coastal retreat with dramatic views. Each space brings its own character and helps set the tone for the days ahead. I think it’s very important to prioritise intimacy, comfort, and an atmosphere that encourages mingling.

Set a Welcoming Ambience

The selection of lighting is a fundamental element for establishing mood. I love the soft illumination of combining candles and pendant lights, and hanging jars with fairy lights. The table design should include natural elements such as linen runners, local foliage, and ceramic plates to achieve a simple yet layered appearance. Providing guests with calligraphy place cards and welcome notes is a beautiful personal touch.

Design a Menu That Showcases Local Flavour

The Irish culinary tradition is based on fresh ingredients and high-quality products. Begin the meal with artisan breads, farmhouse cheeses, and a selection of smoked fish or cured meats. I think some of the best starter options could include leek soup, roasted beet salad, or crab cakes. For the main course, serve slow-cooked beef, grilled hake, or a vegetarian risotto with wild mushrooms. Then on to dessert—my favourite part. I suggest something indulgent such as rhubarb crumble or a custard tart flavoured with Irish cream.

Include Thoughtful Gestures

Use the evening to show your appreciation. Express gratitude to all guests who attended by giving a brief toast or speech. Offer small gifts like homemade soap, local honey, or miniature whiskey bottles. Since most people love to feel prepared for what happens next, it’s also a good idea to include an itinerary or welcome pack to provide guests with essential information and boost their excitement for the weekend.

Curate the Soundtrack

Live music can bring warmth to the evening. A harpist, acoustic guitarist, or Irish folk trio creates an elegant backdrop for conversation. However, I know that hiring musicians isn’t always feasible. This is why I tell my couples that a carefully selected playlist, played at a soft volume, serves as an equally effective alternative to hiring musicians.

Share Style Guidelines

To avoid confusion, let guests know how to dress. The welcome dinner is usually more relaxed than the wedding day, but it still calls for a polished look. A smart-casual dress code works well, especially in Irish weather, which may shift from sun to mist in a matter of hours. I always suggest layers! It’s also considerate to provide shawls and umbrellas if you’re planning anything outdoors.

Capture the Moments

Even informal gatherings deserve a few keepsakes. You may want to hire a photographer for part of the evening, or ask a friend to document it with their camera. These candid images often become favourites long after the wedding is over.

There are so many brilliant Destination Wedding Trends right now, but the welcome dinner serves as your opportunity to kick off the celebration with heartfelt meaning and a deeper connection to the location. The careful planning of this event allows your guests to create lasting memories while starting your wedding weekend in an elegant manner.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

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