Jane & Mark’s Magical Two-Part Adare Manor Wedding

I always love planning an Adare Manor wedding, but from the start, I knew that Jane and Mark’s would be something special and unique. The couple met through mutual friends in Limerick and have lived in several countries since, but their love story always circled back to Ireland. When Mark proposed on a beach in Barbados at sunset, he’d already had the ring for eight months, just waiting for the perfect moment. That same care and thoughtfulness was reflected in their wedding planning. Instead of a standard wedding day, they dreamed of something deeply personal: an intimate ceremony and dinner on Friday with just close family, followed by a full-scale celebration for 350 guests on the Saturday. They wanted their wedding day to be about them and their reception to be all about their guests. The weekend was filled with warm sunshine, lush florals, fabulous food, and amazing entertainment. But most importantly, it was a mindful and meaningful start to their lives together.

Adare Manor is one of Ireland’s most iconic venues, but for Jane and Mark, it was more than just a beautiful location. Mark’s uncle owns the estate, so it was the perfect place to exchange vows, and the only venue they considered. From the fairytale manor house to the Michelin-starred dining and expansive French gardens, every inch of the property is pure magic. We used several of its most unique spaces across the weekend: the Oak Room terrace for the ceremony, the wine cellar for an intimate family dinner, and the Grand Ballroom and formal gardens for Saturday’s reception. Adare is a venue that can feel equally right for 16 guests or 350, and that’s exactly what Jane and Mark loved about it.

Jane and Mark saw their wedding ceremony as the most important part of the whole event. So on the first day of this Adare Manor wedding weekend, we focused on creating a setting for the vows that was worthy of the occasion. The glass-enclosed terrace of the Oak Room, with its stone colonnade overlooking the gardens, was filled with greenery and florals. The bride said that entering the space was like walking into a fairytale. After the couple promised forever in a handfasting ceremony, the families moved on to the cellar for a candlelit dinner. This space is usually used for wine tastings and with flowers and white votive candles adorning the marble-topped table, it was really intimate and atmospheric. With such a small guest list, it was all about connection, conversation, and savouring each moment – and every delicious course!

With the formalities complete, the next day was time to party! Guests were welcomed with live music from the New Brass Kings and Dublin Gospel Choir, clouds of greenery and baby’s breath, and a selection of food and drink stations. Tables, settees and pretty umbrellas dotted the geometric parterre gardens, while guests enjoyed cocktails in the sunshine.

Inside the manor house, the ballroom had been transformed into a dream scene with crystal chandeliers, white florals, and lush greenery. The musical lineup alone would rival a concert: Carly Coonagh Quartet, The Legends, The New Atlantics, and DJ Gordo. Jane wore a strapless lace midi dress and danced the night away with her groom and guests.

What made this Adare Manor wedding weekend so special was the way Jane and Mark honoured both ends of the scale: quiet, private moments alongside a large celebration. It’s a reminder that you can do both, beautifully. For couples considering something similar, I’d advise you to approach each day as its own event with its own feeling. It’s all about layering experiences for your guests. And don’t be afraid to use all the spaces your venue offers – for example, the contrast between the candlelit cellar and the soaring ballroom made each of these moments more memorable.

It was a joy to plan Jane and Mark’s wedding. Wishing them a lifetime of unforgettable celebrations!

Slán go Fóill,
Tara

Planner: Tara Fay Events | Venue: Adare Manor | Photography: John Cain Photography | Bridal Gowns: The Attic Bridal Boutique, Limerick | Ceremony Dress: Elbeth Gillis | Reception Dress: Alena Leena | Groom’s Suits: Louis Copeland & Sons, | Design: Silverthorn Productions | Florals: Harris & Wilkinson | Stationery: Grosvenor Stationery | Set, Stage & Lighting: Gorilla Design | Technical Production: KCLS | Marquee: Eventus | Stretch Tent: Extreme Structures | Rentals – Linens, Furniture & Bar: Total Event | Rentals: Caterhire – Limerick | Additional Furniture: Select Hire | Photo Parlour: Beatrice & Bertrum | Video: Odicci | Ceremony Music: Síbeal Ní Chasaide | Arrival Music: The Carly Coonagh Quartet | Brass Band: New Brass Kings | Choir: Dublin Gospel Choir | Band – The Legends: ALR Music | Band – New Atlantics: ALR Music | Piano: Maurice Culligan | DJ & Sax: Gordo | Cake: MM Cookies | Guest Transport: Leatours | Bridal Party – Hair & Makeup: FMN Bridal | Guest Hair & Makeup: Mandy O’Loughlin

 

 

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Why a Holiday Wedding in Ireland Feels Like Pure Winter Romance

There’s something about Ireland during the holidays that wraps people in warmth the moment they arrive. Stone castles glow against early dusks, fireplaces crackle in great halls, and candlelight softens centuries-old architecture. Take it from me – couples who choose a holiday wedding here aren’t chasing trends — they’re creating atmosphere, emotion and connection in a way few places can offer.

Winter weddings in Ireland feel intimate by nature, shifting the focus toward shared moments rather than spectacle. Drinks are served hot, food is hearty and comforting, and the pace slows just enough to let everyone fully soak in the celebration. Here are some of the reasons I think winter in Ireland is pure romance.

Castles Made for the Season

Irish castles truly come alive during the colder months. Thick stone walls hold heat, fires are lit throughout reception rooms, and the glow of chandeliers reflects off polished wood and historic details. Many venues dress their halls with seasonal greenery, soft lighting and festive touches that enhance the setting rather than overwhelm it.

Framed by tall windows or tapestries or fireplaces, ceremonies often take place indoors. I love how evening receptions flow easily between cosy lounges and grand dining spaces, creating a natural rhythm that feels relaxed yet luxurious.

A Rich and Refined Winter Aesthetic

My favourite part about holiday weddings are how they lend themselves beautifully to layered styling. Deep reds, forest greens and warm neutrals pair effortlessly with antique gold accents. I love the comfort of velvet linens and subtle metallic details. Faux furs, wool throws and candle clusters bring comfort and visual interest, especially during evening celebrations.

Even the florals shift. Evergreens, berries, dried elements and seasonal foliage replace light summer blooms, creating arrangements that feel grounded and timeless. This approach works particularly well in historic venues.

Seasonal Food and Drink Guests Truly Enjoy

One of the strongest advantages of a winter wedding is the menu. Irish chefs excel at seasonal cooking and holiday celebrations lean into that strength. Multi-course meals often feature slow-cooked meats, root vegetables, rich sauces and warm desserts. Late-night snacks might include mini pies, toasties or comforting favourites served fireside.

And the drink menus! They become experiences of their own. Mulled wine, hot whiskey cocktails, spiced cider or Irish coffee stations encourage guests to linger, chat and relax. These small touches shape memories long after the day ends.

Timing Matters More Than Ever

To be honest, couples often underestimate the effort it takes to plan a holiday wedding and the necessity for a clear planning timeline. Popular winter dates — especially December weekends — book quickly, particularly in castle venues with limited availability. It is better to book a wedding planner sooner rather than later. This decision can make all the difference. Early planning allows access to preferred venues, trusted suppliers and flexible schedules. Winter logistics, travel coordination and guest accommodation need thoughtful handling, especially around public holidays. Having experienced guidance keeps everything running smoothly while allowing couples to enjoy the season rather than juggle details.

Holiday weddings in Ireland often feel deeply personal. Fireside conversations and shared meals bring your guests together. Candlelit evenings create an energy that feels sincere and grounded.

For couples drawn to atmosphere and a meaningful celebration, winter weddings in Ireland offer something quietly powerful — warmth, beauty and a sense of togetherness that stays long after the last candle burns low.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Greg Finck

5 Essential Decisions to Start Your Irish Destination Wedding Planning

I have a lot of experience guiding many couples through the early stages of planning their ideal destination wedding. Organising a wedding from abroad requires careful thought, yet Ireland’s charm and rich traditions make it worth every moment spent planning. Here are the five critical decisions you’ll need to make first to ensure your wedding planning gets off on the right foot.

Wedding Ceremony in old stone monastery setting

 

Finalise Your Guest List Early

Your guest list directly influences almost every subsequent planning decision. Establishing who you’re inviting—and who is realistically able to attend a wedding overseas—will shape your venue size, budget allocation, and the types of experiences you can provide. Many Irish venues, particularly heritage estates and castles, have strict capacity limits, so knowing your guest count early prevents disappointment or costly venue changes down the line. Create your initial list by separating guests into tiers, such as immediate family, close friends, and wider circles. This approach helps you easily adjust numbers as you proceed.

Establish a Clear and Practical Budget

When planning from afar, making a detailed, realistic budget is essential. Outline your budget clearly, prioritising spending on elements that matter most to you as a couple. Factor in costs unique to destination weddings, like currency conversion fees and additional travel expenses. I always advise setting aside contingency funds for unexpected costs. A clear financial plan provides peace of mind and helps avoid stressful surprises.

Select Your Ideal Irish Region

Ireland offers a wealth of location options, each with its unique character and logistical implications. Deciding between vibrant cities like Dublin, coastal retreats in Kerry, picturesque villages in Galway, or historic castles in Kilkenny will define your wedding’s aesthetic and guest experience.

When selecting your region, account for travel accessibility for your guests and availability of suitable accommodation. You’ll also what to consider the types of activities you want to enjoy around your wedding celebrations. Your chosen region serves as the backdrop for your special day, so align this decision with the vision you have for your celebration.

Secure Your Venue Promptly

Once your location and guest count are set, book your venue without delay. Popular Irish venues, especially iconic castles and luxurious estates, can book out far in advance. Early booking provides more flexibility in choosing your preferred dates, particularly in peak seasons such as summer and early autumn.  When selecting your venue, think about practical needs: catering options, guest accommodations, and availability for exclusive hire. As your planner, my role includes guiding you through these critical venue assessments to ensure it matches your expectations and vision perfectly.

Decide on Your Wedding Date or Season

Selecting your wedding date involves balancing your preferred aesthetics with practical considerations. Summer months offer longer daylight hours and milder weather, making outdoor ceremonies appealing. Conversely, winter weddings bring warmth, intimacy, and often more budget-friendly packages. I’ll help you be mindful of local holidays and popular events, as these can influence venue availability, guest accommodations, and travel costs.  (Do you know the best season for an Irish destination wedding? I bet it’s not what you think.) 

Beginning your destination wedding planning by addressing these key decisions sets a solid foundation for everything that follows. With clarity in your guest list, budget, location, venue, and date, your Irish wedding will come together seamlessly.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by John Cain Photography