Handfasting Ceremony Archives

Madison & Don’s Elegant Dromoland Castle Wedding in Emerald and Gold

October 27, 2026September 2, 2026 by Harmony Walton

Madison and Don’s Dromoland Castle wedding was a joyful spring celebration that brought together family and friends from Ireland, the UK, and the United States for a wonderful weekend in County Clare. The couple met on Hinge in 2021 and had their first date in Don’s favourite London pub, the Auld Shillelagh, where a few pints of Guinness quickly turned into a connection that neither of them expected but both instantly recognised. A romantic proposal followed two years later at the Christmas markets in Bruges, with Don choosing a quiet moment partway down the medieval bell tower to ask Madison to marry him. Eighteen months later, they gathered their loved ones at Dromoland for a destination wedding that felt both grand and wonderfully personal. With guests travelling from across the Atlantic, Madison and Don were keen to create a relaxed three-day celebration where everyone could settle in, explore the area, and enjoy the best of Irish hospitality. I was delighted to help them bring their vision to life at one of my favourite Irish wedding venues.

This wedding was featured in print in Social & Personal Weddings – you can also see the online feature here. We’re also delighted that it was recently featured on Loverly.

Choosing Dromoland Castle as the setting for their celebration felt like a natural decision for this couple. With guests travelling from near and far, they were keen to find a venue that offered a true Irish castle experience while still being easily accessible, and Dromoland delivers both beautifully. Set within 500 acres of parkland in the heart of County Clare and steeped in centuries of history connected to the O’Brien dynasty, it has a wonderful sense of occasion. The couple took full advantage of the estate throughout the weekend, beginning with a welcome gathering at the Fig Tree Restaurant and even arranging a relaxed morning of golf before the ceremony. Their vows took place in the castle’s enchanting Walled Garden, and afterwards, guests made their way to the magnificent Brian Boru Hall for dinner and dancing.

The ceremony at Madison and Don’s Dromoland Castle wedding took place in the Walled Garden, and it could not have suited them more. The gardens were in full bloom for early May, and we were blessed with one of those rare, glorious spring days where the sky is a perfect blue. Madison, looking like a dream in her Monique Lhuillier gown, walked down the aisle with her dad to ‘Concerning Hobbits’ from The Lord of the Rings. Don, not to be outdone, decided on a unique entrance of his own, and the string quartet played ‘Gangsta’s Paradise’ as he and his groomsmen made their way in. It set the tone perfectly for a ceremony that was personal, playful, and full of laughter. Their celebrant, Caroline McCarthy, struck that balance so well, keeping things warm and heartfelt, with just the right amount of emotion. The ceremony also included a handfasting element, which was a beautiful way to symbolise the binding of two lives while also celebrating Irish culture.

For the reception, the couple leaned into their sumptuous emerald and gold palette. It truly looked sensational in the grandeur of the Brian Boru Hall! One of the loveliest details was their custom monogram crest, which was carried beautifully throughout the weekend, from the stationery to small, thoughtful touches that guests spotted as the night unfolded. We even incorporated it at the drinks reception on an ice sculpture, and on the heads of pints of Guinness, which delighted the couple’s guests and felt like a nod to the Irish pub of their first date. The room itself was transformed with dramatic draping, emerald velvet linens, gold flatware, candlelight, and elegant green and white florals. The soaring Gothic ceilings and grand scale created the perfect setting for a celebration of this size, along with that sense of occasion you only really get in a castle ballroom.

When it came time to party, Madison and Don’s band choice was inspired. They booked the band Spring Break, who brought the kind of energy that fills a dance floor from the first song. Don and his friends are longtime superfans, so it was a very “them” decision, and it turned the reception into the most brilliant celebration. The dance floor stayed packed all night, apart from the moments when the band were leading guests through the room in a conga line. So much fun! It was one of those weddings where you could genuinely feel the sense of community by the end of the weekend, and it was such a joy to watch everyone mixing together so easily.

From the welcome party and time on the grounds to the laughter-filled ceremony and the incredible energy of the reception, every part of this Dromoland Castle wedding felt intentional, warm, and personal.

Madison and Don – it was such a pleasure to be part of your destination wedding in Ireland, and I hope you look back on those spring days in County Clare for years to come with the biggest smiles. Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness together.

Slán go Fóill,
Tara

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What is an Irish Handfasting Ceremony?

May 5, 2026March 3, 2026 by Harmony Walton

As an Irish wedding planner, I’ve had the privilege of helping couples weave beautiful and meaningful traditions, like The Warming of the Ring Ceremony or the Handfasting Ceremony into their wedding day. This ancient Celtic ritual has experienced a revival in recent years, with couples drawn to its rich symbolism and historical roots. For those planning a wedding in Ireland or simply seeking a heartfelt addition to their ceremony, a handfasting ritual is a timeless and poignant choice.

The Historical Roots of Handfasting

The tradition of handfasting dates back to ancient Celtic times, long before the advent of Christianity in Ireland. In its earliest form, handfasting was a binding agreement that symbolised a couple’s intention to marry. It was often considered a trial marriage, lasting a year and a day, after which the couple could choose to formalise their union or part ways.

Over time, handfasting evolved into a sacred ritual performed during wedding ceremonies. The term “handfasting” originates from the act of fastening the couple’s hands together with a cord, ribbon, or cloth. This gesture symbolises their unity and commitment, echoing the phrase “tying the knot” which we still use today.

What Happens During a Handfasting Ceremony?

During a handfasting ceremony, the couple’s hands are gently tied together while they exchange vows or promises to one another. This act serves as a physical representation of their bond and their willingness to face life’s challenges together. While the traditional format uses a single cord, many modern ceremonies incorporate multiple ribbons or cords, each representing different aspects of the couple’s relationship—such as love, friendship, and fidelity.

The officiant or celebrant will often guide the couple through the ritual, explaining its significance to the guests. Some couples choose to involve family and friends, with each person contributing a ribbon or tying a knot as a blessing for the marriage. Others prefer a more private moment, allowing the symbolism to speak for itself.

Personalising the Ritual

One of the most beautiful aspects of a handfasting ceremony is its versatility. Couples can customise the ritual to reflect their values, culture, or shared journey. For instance, you might choose cords in colours that hold personal significance or incorporate fabrics with sentimental value, such as pieces of a parent’s wedding gown or family tartan.

For a wedding in Ireland, the ceremony often takes place in a location that enhances the ritual’s connection to nature and heritage. Imagine standing in the ruins of a centuries-old abbey or amidst the lush greenery of the Irish countryside as you exchange your vows. The surroundings become part of the magic, grounding your union in the timeless beauty of Ireland.

Why Choose Handfasting?

Handfasting offers a unique way to honour tradition while creating a deeply personal and meaningful moment in your ceremony. Whether you have Irish heritage or simply feel drawn to its rich symbolism, this ancient ritual adds a touch of history and heartfelt connection to your special day.

As a wedding planner, I love guiding couples through the process of incorporating handfasting into their celebrations. It’s a reminder that, while weddings are about joy and festivity, they’re also about promises, unity, and the beauty of two lives coming together. And in that sense, what could be more Irish than tying the knot with a tradition steeped in love and lore?

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Story of Eve and Lisa O’Dwyer Photography

Jane & Mark’s Magical Two-Part Adare Manor Wedding

January 20, 2026November 20, 2025 by Harmony Walton

I always love planning an Adare Manor wedding, but from the start, I knew that Jane and Mark’s would be something special and unique. The couple met through mutual friends in Limerick and have lived in several countries since, but their love story always circled back to Ireland. When Mark proposed on a beach in Barbados at sunset, he’d already had the ring for eight months, just waiting for the perfect moment. That same care and thoughtfulness was reflected in their wedding planning. Instead of a standard wedding day, they dreamed of something deeply personal: an intimate ceremony and dinner on Friday with just close family, followed by a full-scale celebration for 350 guests on the Saturday. They wanted their wedding day to be about them and their reception to be all about their guests. The weekend was filled with warm sunshine, lush florals, fabulous food, and amazing entertainment. But most importantly, it was a mindful and meaningful start to their lives together.

Adare Manor is one of Ireland’s most iconic venues, but for Jane and Mark, it was more than just a beautiful location. Mark’s uncle owns the estate, so it was the perfect place to exchange vows, and the only venue they considered. From the fairytale manor house to the Michelin-starred dining and expansive French gardens, every inch of the property is pure magic. We used several of its most unique spaces across the weekend: the Oak Room terrace for the ceremony, the wine cellar for an intimate family dinner, and the Grand Ballroom and formal gardens for Saturday’s reception. Adare is a venue that can feel equally right for 16 guests or 350, and that’s exactly what Jane and Mark loved about it.

Jane and Mark saw their wedding ceremony as the most important part of the whole event. So on the first day of this Adare Manor wedding weekend, we focused on creating a setting for the vows that was worthy of the occasion. The glass-enclosed terrace of the Oak Room, with its stone colonnade overlooking the gardens, was filled with greenery and florals. The bride said that entering the space was like walking into a fairytale. After the couple promised forever in a handfasting ceremony, the families moved on to the cellar for a candlelit dinner. This space is usually used for wine tastings and with flowers and white votive candles adorning the marble-topped table, it was really intimate and atmospheric. With such a small guest list, it was all about connection, conversation, and savouring each moment – and every delicious course!

With the formalities complete, the next day was time to party! Guests were welcomed with live music from the New Brass Kings and Dublin Gospel Choir, clouds of greenery and baby’s breath, and a selection of food and drink stations. Tables, settees and pretty umbrellas dotted the geometric parterre gardens, while guests enjoyed cocktails in the sunshine.

Inside the manor house, the ballroom had been transformed into a dream scene with crystal chandeliers, white florals, and lush greenery. The musical lineup alone would rival a concert: Carly Coonagh Quartet, The Legends, The New Atlantics, and DJ Gordo. Jane wore a strapless lace midi dress and danced the night away with her groom and guests.

What made this Adare Manor wedding weekend so special was the way Jane and Mark honoured both ends of the scale: quiet, private moments alongside a large celebration. It’s a reminder that you can do both, beautifully. For couples considering something similar, I’d advise you to approach each day as its own event with its own feeling. It’s all about layering experiences for your guests. And don’t be afraid to use all the spaces your venue offers – for example, the contrast between the candlelit cellar and the soaring ballroom made each of these moments more memorable.

It was a joy to plan Jane and Mark’s wedding. Wishing them a lifetime of unforgettable celebrations!

Slán go Fóill,
Tara

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Modern Irish Wedding Traditions for Luxury Destination Weddings

September 23, 2025July 16, 2025 by Harmony Walton

Ireland is steeped in lore, music, and ritual. It truly is a dream backdrop for a romantic destination wedding. But today’s couples want more than just sentiment—they seek experiences that feel personal and refined. Fortunately, the richness of Irish tradition pairs beautifully with modern elegance. Here’s how to reimagine time-honoured customs for a luxurious celebration that still feels uniquely Irish.

A Ceremony Rooted in Myth and Meaning

The ancient Celtic Handfasting ritual stands as one of Ireland’s most beloved marriage customs. The traditional practice of handfasting symbolised a marriage union long before its modern revival. Instead of coarse rope or rustic cord, consider using silk ribbons, handwoven in your wedding colours, and embroidered with your names or a meaningful phrase. The celebrant should explain the historical background of the ritual to guests before the binding ceremony to make the moment more meaningful and intentional.

The Warming of the Ring ritual is another lovely revived tradition. The wedding bands are passed from guest to guest for people to infuse them with their good wishes. A personalised version of this tradition involves placing the rings in an heirloom box at a welcome table so guests can offer blessings at their convenience, thus beginning your day with a quiet, meaningful start.

Music That Moves

Irish music evokes emotion like few others. Instead of a traditional céilí, elevate the experience with a string quartet playing instrumental arrangements of Irish ballads or a solo harpist welcoming guests as they arrive. A private concert after dinner, featuring a modern folk singer or acoustic band, can serve as a sophisticated nod to Ireland’s musical heritage.

Fashion with a Nod to the Past

In ancient Irish tradition, brides wore blue as a symbol of purity. A modern interpretation could include sapphire shoes, aquamarine earrings, or a pale blue sash woven into the gown. The groom could wear Celtic knot cufflinks or a tailored jacket with Irish tweed lining. These touches allow for subtle storytelling through design without compromising contemporary style.

A Feast Worthy of Legends

Hospitality has always been central to Irish culture, and the wedding feast is no exception. The menu should honour local ingredients through sophisticated preparations including, for example, Atlantic coast scallops, wild mushroom risotto with foraged herbs, or dry-aged beef with red wine jus. Rare Irish whiskeys and elegant mead cocktails made with honey and citrus could accompany the meal to provide a playful historical touch.

Gifts and Favours With Depth

Instead of traditional wedding favours, consider giving guests items that hold personal significance, such as small Irish cream liqueur bottles, beeswax candles, or Irish blessings written on handmade paper. The tradition of beeswax candles as a symbol of warmth and ritual now represents the guiding light for a couple to begin their new life together. The handmade paper represents Ireland’s artistic traditions, which makes each blessing unique and permanent. These tokens feel purposeful and tie back to the country’s creative spirit.

Reimagining Irish wedding traditions doesn’t mean abandoning the past. It’s about blending the soul of the old with the sophistication of the new—creating a wedding that feels both timeless and entirely your own. In Ireland, where the land itself seems to hum with history, modern couples can craft a celebration that honours tradition while indulging in their own vision of luxury.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Cinzia Bruschini