The Irish Mead Sharing Ceremony: A Symbolic Toast to Love

When I’m asked to weave ancient traditions into elegant, modern celebrations, one of my favourite suggestions is a tradition that has captivated couples seeking a meaningful and unique ritual: the Irish Mead Sharing Ceremony. This ancient Celtic custom, steeped in history and romance, is a beautiful way to symbolise love, prosperity, and the sweet journey of marriage.

The History and Significance of Mead in Irish Weddings

Mead, often referred to as the ‘nectar of the gods,’ is one of the oldest alcoholic beverages in the world and has deep roots in Irish history. Made from fermented honey, water, and herbs, mead was believed to have magical and aphrodisiac properties. In Celtic tradition, newlyweds would drink mead for a full lunar cycle (or a ‘honeymoon’) to promote fertility and ensure a strong and harmonious union. This is where the term ‘honeymoon’ originates, making mead an incredibly symbolic beverage for wedding celebrations.

How the Irish Mead Sharing Ceremony Works

During the ceremony, a beautifully crafted goblet or a pair of engraved chalices filled with mead is presented to the couple. The act of sharing this sacred drink symbolises their commitment to one another and the sweetness of their future together. After exchanging vows, the couple takes turns sipping mead from a shared goblet, signifying their unity and devotion. In some ceremonies, close family members or guests also take part by offering blessings before the couple shares their first sip. Others may ask their parents or closest friends read a meaningful poem before sipping the mead.

Some couples choose to have a bespoke blend of mead created, infused with botanicals that hold personal or cultural significance. The type of mead can also be chosen to suit personal tastes, from a rich, spiced variety to a light, floral-infused blend. Additionally, miniature bottles of mead can be gifted to guests as a luxurious and meaningful keepsake of the special day.

Elevating the Mead Ceremony in a Luxury Setting

For couples planning an opulent destination wedding in Ireland, the Mead Sharing Ceremony can be beautifully tailored to match the grandeur of their venue. Whether set against the backdrop of a majestic castle, a historic estate, or an intimate countryside retreat, this ritual adds a touch of old-world charm and sophistication. I often suggest collaborating with Ireland’s finest mead producers to source premium, locally crafted mead that enhances the experience. Personalised goblets engraved with the couple’s names, wedding date, or a Celtic knot design can be a beautiful and elegant addition. The mead-sharing moment can also be accompanied by a harpist or a traditional Irish toast to create a truly magical atmosphere.

The Irish Mead Sharing Ceremony is a timeless and deeply romantic wedding ritual that perfectly complements the grandeur of a luxury Irish destination wedding. It’s a tradition that sweetens the journey ahead. Whether embraced as a nod to Irish heritage or simply as a heartfelt symbol of love and unity, sharing mead with your beloved (and your beloved guests) is a beautiful way to begin your journey as a married couple—one sip at a time.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Anée Atelier and John Cain Photography

What is the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony?

Breathtaking weddings are steeped in Ireland’s history, culture, and enchantment. One of the most beautiful and symbolic Irish wedding traditions that many couples incorporate into their ceremonies is the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony. This age-old custom is not only a romantic nod to Ireland’s past but also a meaningful way to bless the couple’s union with love and harmony.

The Significance of Wedding Bells in Irish Tradition

Wedding bells have long been associated with Irish nuptials. Historically, the ringing of bells was believed to ward off evil spirits and ensure a marriage filled with good fortune. The bell’s chime was also thought to bring clarity and peace, reminding couples of their vows during times of difficulty. In modern weddings, this tradition has evolved into the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony—a heartfelt moment that adds a touch of magic and sentimentality to the celebration.

How the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony Works

During the ceremony, a small handbell—often crafted from fine silver or a family heirloom—is rung either by the officiant, the couple, or even their guests. This gentle chime symbolises the blessings of love, unity, and everlasting happiness. There are a few different ways to incorporate this tradition into a luxury wedding, and I often work with couples to personalise it to suit their style and preferences.

The Couple’s Bell Ringing: Just before or after exchanging vows, the couple rings the wedding bell together, symbolising their commitment and the joyful beginning of their life as one.

The Guests’ Blessing: Small bells can be distributed among guests, allowing them to ring them in celebration as the couple shares their first kiss or is pronounced married. This creates a stunning auditory experience, reminiscent of church bells ringing in the distance.

A Keepsake Bell: Many couples choose to have a specially designed wedding bell engraved with their names and wedding date, serving as a cherished keepsake that they can ring during anniversaries as a reminder of their vows.

Ringing Away Disputes: A charming interpretation of this tradition suggests that whenever a disagreement arises, ringing the wedding bell will bring harmony back to the marriage, reinforcing the values of love and understanding.

Incorporating Wedding Bells into an Irish Wedding

For couples seeking an exquisite destination wedding in Ireland, the Wedding Bell Ceremony adds a unique cultural and sentimental touch. I often recommend custom-made bells from renowned Irish artisans, featuring intricate Celtic designs, family crests, or even a touch of gold for added opulence. Some couples may choose to incorporate the bell motif into wedding stationery, table décor, or favours to further enhance this elegant theme.

At some of Ireland’s most luxurious wedding venues—think fairytale castles, stately manors, or coastal retreats—the gentle chime of wedding bells can beautifully echo through historic halls or open landscapes, making the moment truly unforgettable.

A Tradition That Stands the Test of Time

The Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony is a poetic and symbolic way to honour Irish heritage while embracing a timeless ritual of love and unity. What I love most about this tradition is knowing the sweet sound of wedding bells will forever resonate as a blessing upon your marriage. Here’s to your lifetime of harmony and happiness.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by John Cain Photography

Destination Wedding Trends for 2025

The world of destination weddings continues to evolve, with couples in 2025 seeking bespoke experiences that reflect their personalities while embracing the unique allure of their chosen locations. As a luxury wedding planner, I’ve observed some captivating trends shaping the year ahead. If you’re planning a celebration that hits all the destination wedding trends for 2025, let me get you started with my predictions for the coming year.

Hybrid Celebrations

Hybrid weddings are on the rise, with couples merging the convenience of virtual participation with the intimacy of in-person celebrations. For destination weddings, this allows loved ones unable to travel to be part of the day through live streams or interactive virtual activities, ensuring everyone feels included.

Immersive Cultural Experiences

2025 couples are drawn to destinations that allow them and their guests to delve into the local culture. This goes beyond the setting—think intimate cooking classes, guided tours of historic landmarks, or even a traditional blessing as part of the ceremony. A wedding in Tuscany might include a pre-wedding vineyard tour, while an Irish castle celebration could feature a harpist playing Celtic melodies during dinner.

Eco-Conscious Celebrations

Sustainability is no longer just a buzzword; it’s a core value for modern couples. Eco-conscious destination weddings are growing in popularity, with couples opting for locally sourced menus, seasonal flowers, and venues that prioritise sustainability. Many are choosing locations that champion green initiatives, from eco-lodges to venues with renewable energy programmes.

Weeklong Weddings

Destination weddings are evolving into full-scale holiday experiences. Instead of one or two days, many couples are hosting weeklong celebrations. This trend is especially popular in picturesque locations like Santorini or the Amalfi Coast, where couples plan multi-day itineraries: welcome dinners, sightseeing excursions, sunset cocktail hours, and post-wedding brunches. These longer stays foster deeper connections among guests while maximising the destination experience.

Destination-Inspired Décor

Couples are increasingly weaving their destination into every detail of the wedding. This can be as subtle as menu cards adorned with illustrations of local landmarks or as bold as a reception space designed to mimic the destination’s natural beauty. In Provence, this might mean tablescapes featuring lavender and olive branches; in Marrakech, it could be Moroccan lanterns and intricate textiles.

Vibrant Colour Palettes

Neutral tones have dominated weddings in recent years, but 2025 is ushering in a renaissance of colour. Couples are embracing vibrant palettes that reflect the essence of their chosen location. Think coral and turquoise for a tropical beach wedding, rich emeralds and golds for a ceremony in an Irish forest, or terracotta and mustard hues for a Spanish vineyard celebration.

Personalised Guest Experiences

2025 couples are going above and beyond to ensure their guests feel cherished. Welcome gifts are evolving into curated keepsakes inspired by the destination—a handmade pottery piece in Greece or locally distilled whiskey in Ireland. These thoughtful touches elevate the guest experience, leaving a lasting impression.

After-Parties with a Twist

The celebration doesn’t stop at the reception. Destination weddings are embracing unique after-parties, such as bonfires on the beach, silent discos in historic ruins, or stargazing soirées in desert locales. These innovative experiences add another layer of magic to the festivities.

Destination weddings in 2025 are about more than just exchanging vows in a picturesque setting—they’re about creating unforgettable moments that resonate deeply with couples and their loved ones. With these trends, your celebration will be nothing short of extraordinary. (Ps. Just because it’s a new year, doesn’t mean last years trends aren’t relevant. You might find some more inspiration here: Destination Wedding Trends for 2024)

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Anée Atelier

2025 Destination Wedding Location Ideas: Luxury Celebrations in Portugal, Mallorca, and Ireland

As a luxury wedding planner, one of my greatest joys is curating unforgettable experiences in some of the most stunning locations across Europe. For couples seeking the perfect destination to say “I do” in 2025, there are many options that offer unparalleled beauty, charm, and bespoke opportunities to make your special day truly extraordinary. Let me guide you through a few of my favourite 2025 destination wedding location ideas.

Portugal: Sun-kissed Elegance

Portugal continues to captivate couples with its warm climate, golden coastlines, and rich cultural heritage. For 2025, the Algarve’s sun-drenched beaches remain a timeless choice, but Lisbon and Sintra are emerging as luxury wedding hot spots. (Here are some I think are brilliant.)

When you think Portugal, think Lisbon. Historic palaces and chic rooftop venues overlooking the city’s iconic terracotta rooftops create the perfect backdrop for a cosmopolitan celebration. Sintra, with its fairy-tale castles such as the Palácio de Pena, create a romantic and whimsical setting amidst lush, rolling hills.

One unique trend I’ve seen is incorporating Portugal’s famous gastronomy into the wedding menu. Fresh seafood, pastel de nata desserts, and world-class wines. A live Fado performance adds a soulful touch. These are the kinds of memories that guests will treasure forever.

Mallorca: Mediterranean Bliss

Mallorca, the crown jewel of the Balearic Islands, is a haven for couples dreaming of a sun-soaked wedding with a touch of glamour. This Mediterranean paradise combines natural beauty with sophisticated luxury. Imagine exchanging vows at a clifftop villa overlooking the azure sea or hosting a reception in a historic finca nestled among olive groves and vineyards. The island’s luxury hotels offer impeccable service and exclusivity for couples wanting a flawless experience.

For 2025, consider embracing Mallorca’s bohemian-chic vibe. Decor inspired by the island’s natural palette—terracotta, creamy whites, and lush greens—pairs beautifully with al fresco dining under twinkling fairy lights. Serve your guests local delicacies like sobrassada and ensaïmada, paired with Mallorcan wines. You can’t go wrong in Mallorca.

Ireland: Timeless Romance

Ireland’s romantic allure will forever make it one of the best destination wedding locations. In 2025, it continues to enchant couples who desire an elegant wedding steeped in tradition and natural beauty. In Ireland, there are so many options to consider. Imagine a ceremony in the grandeur of a castle like Ashford or Adare, followed by a reception in a stately ballroom adorned with cascading floral arrangements. For those seeking something more intimate, a clifftop vow exchange offers breathtaking views and timeless wonder for all who attend.

One trend gaining momentum in Ireland is the use of seasonal touches that celebrate the country’s rich heritage—autumn weddings featuring warm, earthy tones and hearty menus, or spring ceremonies bursting with wildflowers and fresh, local fare. (Much like Aimee and Shane’s autumn wedding at Adare Manor.)

Why Choose One? Combine Them!

For couples truly seeking a once-in-a-lifetime experience, a multi-destination wedding is a rising trend. Begin with a chic civil ceremony in Lisbon, host a pre-wedding soirée in Mallorca, and conclude with a grand celebration in an Irish castle. The possibilities are as limitless as your imagination.

Each of these 2025 destination wedding location ideas offers a unique canvas for your dream day. Let’s make it extraordinary together!

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Story of Eve and Anée Atelier

You’re Engaged! Here’s How to Begin Planning Your Dream Destination Wedding

Congratulations, you’re engaged! That sparkling ring marks the beginning of one of life’s most enchanting adventures: planning your wedding. For couples dreaming of a destination wedding, the excitement is amplified by the allure of saying “I do” in a faraway place. However, when you’re engaged and planning a destination wedding, you’ll soon realize it’s no small feat! That’s where I come in as your luxury wedding planner. Let me guide you through the initial steps to turn your dream into reality.

Step One: Envision Your Dream Destination

Start by imagining the location that speaks to your hearts as a couple. Is it the romance of Italy’s Amalfi Coast, the charm of a French château, or the timeless beauty of an Irish castle? Perhaps you’re dreaming of tropical shores or a secluded mountain retreat. Your chosen destination sets the tone for your wedding, so ensure it reflects your personality and love story.

Consider the logistical aspects: Is the location accessible for your guests? Does it have the infrastructure to host a wedding of your desired scale? A wedding planner like myself, with destination expertise, will provide invaluable insights into these questions, helping you make a well-informed decision.

Step Two: Create a Vision and Budget

Every luxury wedding begins with a clear vision. Do you picture an opulent celebration dripping in florals or a more intimate gathering with understated elegance? Collaborate with your planner to craft a cohesive style, incorporating elements that resonate with you—whether it’s bespoke invitations, artisan catering, or live entertainment.

Equally important is understanding that a luxury wedding is an investment, and having clarity on where to allocate resources ensures your priorities are met. Your planner will help you identify costs unique to destination weddings, such as travel logistics, accommodations, and local vendor fees.

Step Three: Build Your Guest List

Destination weddings often lend themselves to more intimate guest lists, as not everyone will be able to travel. Consider creating a “VIP” list of essential attendees. Communicate your plans early, allowing guests ample time to make arrangements. A thoughtfully crafted wedding website can be an excellent resource for sharing itineraries, travel details, and accommodations.

Step Four: Partner with a Local Expert

A luxury destination wedding requires impeccable coordination. As your wedding planner, I work with a trusted network of local vendors who understand the nuances of your chosen destination. Whether that is securing a stunning venue or navigating local marriage laws and customs, my expertise ensures a seamless experience. I also serve as your advocate, ensuring that cultural and logistical elements blend harmoniously with your vision.

Step Five: Plan an Unforgettable Experience

A destination wedding is not just a single-day event—it’s a journey for you and your guests. Consider curating a multi-day celebration. Think welcome cocktails overlooking the cliffs of Moher, a rehearsal dinner featuring regional cuisine, and post-wedding activities like guided tours or spa retreats. These moments create cherished memories for you and your loved ones.

Step Six: Trust the Process

When you’re engaged and planning a destination wedding you may find yourself feeling overwhelmed, but take heart! It’s a journey worth savouring. With the right team by your side, every detail is thoughtfully handled. From scouting venues to finalising floral arrangements, I’ll ensure that the experience is as enjoyable as the day itself.

Your engagement marks the start of an extraordinary chapter. Let’s craft a destination wedding that’s as unique and unforgettable as your love story.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Story of Eve

Top Cocktail Trends of 2024 for Your Destination Wedding

As a destination wedding planner I can confidently say the role of cocktails has evolved beyond simple refreshments to become integral elements of the celebration. Today’s cocktails reflect the locale, culture, and personal style of the couple. The top cocktail trends of 2024 for destination weddings are all about innovation, sustainability, and a deep connection to the wedding’s setting. Here’s a look at what’s making waves in the world of wedding cocktails this year.

Interactive Cocktail Experiences

Interactive elements are transforming cocktail service into an experience in itself. In 2024, destination weddings are seeing the rise of cocktail stations where guests can get involved in creating their own drinks. Think build-your-own margarita bars at a Mexican beach wedding or DIY Irish coffee stations at a cosy winter celebration in the countryside. These experiences allow guests to tailor their drinks to their liking, adding an element of engagement to the event.

Signature Cocktail Bars

Personalisation continues to reign supreme, with couples curating bespoke cocktail bars that reflect their tastes and the spirit of their destination. Signature cocktails named after meaningful locations or moments in the couple’s relationship are becoming increasingly popular. Think: a “Royale Raspberry Martini” at a historic castle or a “Sunset Spritz” inspired by the golden hour in which the couple first met.

Locally Sourced Ingredients

One of the biggest trends in 2024 is the use of locally sourced ingredients. Couples are choosing to highlight the flavours of their wedding destination by incorporating native fruits, herbs, and spirits into their cocktail menus. For example, an Irish destination wedding might feature cocktails made with wild elderflower, fresh blackberries, or Irish gin, giving guests a true taste of the locale. Locally sourced ingredients enhance the authenticity of the experience while also supporting local producers and showcasing the region’s unique offerings.

Sustainability and Eco-Friendly Practices

Sustainability is more than just a trend—it’s a movement that’s influencing every aspect of weddings, including cocktails. In 2024, eco-conscious couples are opting for cocktails that are not only delicious but also kind to the environment. (The kind of cocktails that would go over brilliantly at an extravagant garden wedding.) This includes using organic spirits, biodegradable straws, and garnishes that are either edible or compostable. Bartenders are getting creative with zero-waste cocktails, using every part of the fruit or herb, and even recycling ingredients to reduce the carbon footprint of the wedding bar.

Floral and Herbal Infusions

Floral and herbal-infused cocktails are making a strong statement in 2024, particularly at weddings where the natural beauty of the destination plays a central role. Lavender, rosemary, and elderflower are popular choices for infusions, adding a delicate, aromatic touch to cocktails. For a vineyard wedding, herbs from the vineyard garden could be used to create bespoke infusions, while a wedding in a lush, tropical locale might feature hibiscus or passionflower in the cocktails. These botanical elements not only enhance the flavours but also tie the cocktails to the natural surroundings.

Low-ABV and Non-Alcoholic Options

As wellness becomes a greater priority for many, the trend towards low-alcohol (Low-ABV) and non-alcoholic cocktails is growing. Couples are increasingly including these options to cater to a broader range of guests. Non-alcoholic cocktails are no longer an afterthought; they are crafted with the same attention to detail as traditional cocktails, ensuring that everyone who has travelled to your wedding can enjoy a sophisticated drink, regardless of their preferences.

In 2024, cocktail trends for destination weddings are all about reflecting the couple’s unique story and the beauty of their chosen location. Whether through locally sourced ingredients, interactive cocktail stations, or eco-friendly practices, the drinks served at these celebrations are designed to leaving guests with lasting impressions of the couple’s special day. So, as you plan your destination wedding, consider these trends to make your cocktail hour something to write home about.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Story of Eve and Lisa O’Dwyer and Brosnan Photographic