Paradise in Portugal | Harriet and Vinny’s Real Wedding

Destination weddings are always a joy to plan which is why I had so much fun planning Harriet and Vinny’s wedding weekend in Portugal (which was also featured on Destination I Do). The couple explained that their love story began in a local pub when they were just 18-years-old and flourished for a decade before their engagement. They were childhood sweethearts and got to watch each other grow and support each other in their every endeavor.

Harriet and Vinny are truly a testament to lasting love, something that made planning their wedding day an incomparable experience. The couple shared with us the sweet story of their engagement in a quiet, discreet spot in Paris, where Vinny presented Harriet with a photo album of their years of love. When Harriet flipped to the last page, it read: “Will you marry me?”

When Harriet’s parents offered their private vacation home in Portugal as the wedding venue, the couple was set on their plans for a destination wedding. The location was beyond perfect for the theme they wanted- pink and red. Portugal is known for its stunning blossoming flowers of the same hues in the summer months, and so it was our team’s job to enhance that and really make their wedding pop!

With a mixture of vibrant florals and beautiful stationery designed by Julie King Designs, we began planning a red and pink wedding that would create lifelong memories.

The family’s vacation home was the perfect space to host all of our event needs and an even better space for our soon-to-be wed couple to prepare to say “I do.” Harriet looked gorgeous in a white gown from Halfpenny Boutique. Across each of the weekend’s events, she added layers and created different looks, each just as beautiful as the last. Vinny’s choice of a suit in a gentle green matched perfectly with the more vibrant florals we brought in for the reception.

 

Portugal provided the stunning backdrop for the ceremony and a church with breathtaking architecture. Our team brought together elegant floral runners at the entrance of the church and down the aisles for a more classic and simple ceremony look. A touch of the red and pink theme peaked in through the bridesmaid’s dresses, foreshadowing the reception to follow.

The ceremony drew to a close and the couple made their way out of the church to prepare for their next event of the day. I am honoured this incredible couple chose to include us in every piece of their wedding weekend, so we made sure to go the extra mile to ensure each new step would wow both them and their guests.

After the ceremony, our newlyweds and their guests returned to the family’s vacation home. White tents peppered with red and pink florals were absolutely vibrant in the sunlight. In creating the floral-filled space, we wanted to bring out every bit of the red and pink theme in the most elegant way possible. Every aspect of the reception would have a personal touch, down to the napkins embroidered with hot pink thread. It was such a thrill to use such a breathtaking summer vacation home as a blank canvas to create the event Harriet and Vinny had envisioned.

Once the sun set, carefully placed candles illuminated the grounds surrounding the white tents of the reception. With all the candles lit, the area could be seen from the sky glowing with a brilliant soft vibrancy. Harriet, Vinny, and their guests enjoyed festivities of cake cutting, champagne towers and music, but the night wouldn’t end there. We had one more grand event up our sleeve!

Now, for one of my favorite parts! The private discoteca tent was just a short walk from the reception space. Beyond the glowing blue neon sign and entrance, a private Jacquemus-inspired disco tent built just for Harriet and Vinny. The tent was equipped with its very own bar, lounging areas, and even a large sparkling disco ball hung right above the glittering dance floor. The rest of the night was spent enjoying the electric atmosphere where the bride and groom and their guests danced the night away.

You may think this is the end of our story, but don’t go just yet! We still have the epic day-after pool party we planned for the newlyweds!

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Planner: Tara Fay Events | Photography: Anée Atelier | Stationery: Julie King Studio | Flowers: The Garden | DJ: Gordon Johnson  | Bridal Dress: Kate Halfpenny London | Brides Shoes: Manolo Blahnik | Band: Brooklyn Shakers – ARL Music | Bridal Hair: Darren Ambrose | Bridesmaids Hair: David Cashman | Makeup: Diva Borrelli | Cake: Edelweiss Wedding Cakes

Travel Tips for US Guests Attending a Destination Wedding in Ireland

You’ve received the invitation, packed your passport, and now you’re headed to the Emerald Isle! Lucky you! With a bit of preparation, your trip can be smooth and full of charm. Here are my top travel tips for US guests attending a destination wedding in Ireland.

Secure Flights Early

Dublin Airport is the busiest gateway into Ireland, but some wedding venues may be closer to Shannon, Cork, or Belfast. Smaller airports can make travel quicker and less hectic. I’m happy to be a resource when it comes to booking flights. You’ll want to book a few months in advance because this typically leads to better rates, especially during peak wedding season.

Another tip? Ireland is five hours ahead of Eastern Standard Time and eight hours ahead of Pacific Standard Time. Arriving a couple of days before the wedding helps your body adjust and gives you time to rest and enjoy the surroundings before the festivities begin.

Understand Local Currency and Payment Methods

In the Republic of Ireland, the euro (€) is used. If the event takes place in Northern Ireland, transactions will be in British pounds (£). Credit cards are widely accepted, and tap-to-pay is standard across most shops and restaurants. It’s always a good idea to notify your bank about your travel plans to prevent any surprise transaction issues.

Additionally, when it comes to funds, comprehensive travel insurance is a smart addition to your plans. Look for coverage that includes medical emergencies, delayed flights, and lost luggage, just in case your travel hits a bump.

Prepare for All Seasons in a Day

The weather here can be a delightful mix of sun, showers, and clouds—all within the same afternoon. Bring a warm layer, a smart outfit for the wedding, and a lightweight waterproof jacket. Comfortable shoes are a must, especially in countryside settings or on historic grounds. Some of the castle cobblestones can lead to tumbles if you’re in the wrong footwear. Start your checklist and explore even more travel tips for US guests attending a destination wedding in Ireland.

Speaking of getting around, for more rural venues, hiring a car may be helpful. Just remember, on the Emerald Isle, we drive on the left-hand side. In some cases, hosts arrange transport for guests, so be sure to check for shuttle services or group transport ahead of time. In towns and cities, taxis and public transport are easy to navigate.

Soak Up the Local Spirit

Once you settle in, it’s time to strike out and explore! Irish celebrations are known for hospitality, laughter, and heartfelt speeches. Most likely, it will be a very short walk to find traditional music and sample the popular local dishes. And don’t be shy about chatting with locals! I’m confident you’ll find the Irish atmosphere incredibly welcoming.

There are no two ways about it – Ireland provides a stunning setting for a destination wedding. Guests who are blessed to secure an invite to a celebration on this beautiful island will come back with the best memories – and, I’ll bet, plans to return soon. With thoughtful planning and an open mind, you’ll enjoy not only the big day but the entire journey.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Cinzia Bruschini

Planning a Wedding in Europe: Why a Local Planner Makes All the Difference

Organising a wedding overseas can be exciting, yet unexpected challenges often arise. In Ireland, for example, historic venues and castles have specific rules for ceremonies, catering, and décor. This is why more and more couples are hiring a local wedding planner in Europe. It’s up to me to know these requirements and can you to options that align with your vision, avoiding last-minute restrictions or extra fees. This kind of experience and knowledge is the entire reason to plan a wedding in Europe alongside a local wedding planner. It eliminates hours of research and countless calls, leaving you free to enjoy the planning journey.

Avoiding Common Destination Wedding Pitfalls

Destination weddings can be full of surprises, especially when planning from another country. Honestly, I’ve seen it all. Hidden fees, overlooked permits, or miscommunications with vendors can quickly turn a dream celebration into a stressful experience. It’s my job to anticipates these challenges, guiding couples around potential obstacles before they become problems. I review contracts, verify legal requirements, and coordinate with suppliers, professionally and efficiently.

Clear Communication Across Cultures

Even when vendors speak English, cultural expectations and business practices can differ. A wedding planner who is local acts as a bridge, ensuring instructions are understood and agreements are honoured. Established relationships with trusted suppliers often provide benefits such as better pricing, priority bookings, and access to services that may not be available to couples organising remotely.

Managing Time Zones and Travel

It’s also my role to manage your travel to coordinate things like tastings and site visits – because meetings across time zones can be exhausting. A local planner manages these tasks efficiently, giving regular updates and making on-site decisions on your behalf. This approach reduces the need for multiple trips and keeps the planning timeline on track and running smoothly.

Protecting Your Investment

Destination weddings can include hidden costs, from permits to service fees and taxes. Experienced planners understand local pricing and can allocate funds effectively. They negotiate contracts, recommend practical alternatives, and monitor expenses to prevent surprises. This approach maintains the quality and style you want while protecting your investment in your special day.

Adding Local Character to Your Wedding

Local planners like myself often suggest creative touches inspired by the region. In Ireland, this could include seasonal flowers, artisanal foods, or traditional music that enhances the atmosphere. It’s my desire to help you create an authentic, personal experience without complicating logistics, making your celebration memorable and unique. I also love when weddings bring people together to have unforgettable wedding experiences you can only have in Ireland.

Peace of Mind on Your Wedding Day

Hiring a local wedding planner offers more than convenience—it provides reassurance. Knowing that someone experienced is managing vendors, logistics, and your investment allows you to focus on enjoying your wedding. It’s my number one goal to allow you to celebrate your love in a beautiful European location without unnecessary stress, confident that the team behind you is handling every detail professionally.

Ultimately, choosing to work with a local planner in Europe can transform your destination wedding experience. Time is saved, stress is reduced, and your vision is protected. Beyond logistics, a planner brings creativity, local knowledge, and a network of trusted suppliers to make your day feel seamless. For couples planning a wedding abroad, this relationship can be the key to a celebration that exceeds every expectation.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Story of Eve

How Tariffs Affect US Wedding Budgets (And Why Ireland Might Be the Smart Alternative)

Across the United States, couples planning weddings are finding their budgets stretched further than anticipated. Tariffs on imported goods—particularly items sourced for celebrations—have created an unexpected layer of cost. The result is not only higher prices for essentials but also a significant impact on the overall atmosphere couples wish to achieve. These increases are reshaping expectations and forcing couples to make financial choices.

The Cost of Imported Wedding Essentials

It turns out, many of the cherished details at American weddings—designer gowns, fine linens, artisanal décor, and premium wines—are imported. These are all the goods tariffs are applied to – which means higher retail prices and reduced availability. Bridal fashion houses reliant on European textiles now face extra fees that flow directly to the consumer. And it doesn’t stop with formal wear. Caterers working with imported cheeses, specialty wines, or unique tableware also report inflated costs. Unfortunately, what used to be accessible within a mid-range budget now requires stretching into premium territory.

I know firsthand that for engaged couples in the US, these hidden costs can be disheartening. A carefully planned budget may no longer cover both the essentials and the desired personal touches. Parents and extended families, who often contribute, are also shouldering the cost. The stress of cutting guest lists, compromising on décor or scaling back entertainment compromises the experience. A wedding should be a celebration, yet tariffs are transforming it into a balancing act between dreams and financial limits.

Why Ireland Provides Relief

Let’s talk about Ireland. In Ireland, couples experience a different landscape. European tariffs are structured differently and the supply chain for local products is robust. Venues (this includes castles, country estates, and coastal lodges) rely on local resources that are less vulnerable to sudden supply shifts. Locally grown flowers, seasonal produce, and Irish whiskeys provide quality without heavy import surcharges. The result? A wedding experience where couples’ can lean into having a celebration with atmosphere and authenticity.

That’s where I come in. I ensure my couples benefit from trusted supplier networks. I know for a fact that florists who use wildflowers, chefs who design menus around local farms, and musicians who highlight Ireland’s culture all create richness without straining the bottom line. Rather than paying inflated costs for imported goods in the US, couples have discovered that their money stretches further, covering elements that enhance guest experience while also remaining true to their wedding vision.

While destination weddings involve flights, the overall cost often balances out once tariffs and inflated prices are taken into account. Guests who journey to Ireland gain more than attendance at a ceremony—they experience a holiday in a country known for its hospitality and beauty. (It’s not uncommon for your wedding guests to fall in love with our beautiful country and return to have their own adventure on the Emerald Isle.) Often times, people say the investment in travel feels more rewarding than spending extra on domestic tariffs that bring no added value, much less memories that last a lifetime.

In my opinion, couples frustrated by the impact of tariffs on US wedding budgets should consider Ireland. It’s a smart destination. It allows your celebration to remain vibrant, stylish and memorable without constant financial worry or compromise. Are you convinced? Great! Let’s get started!

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Brosnan Photographic and Cinzia Bruschini

5 Unforgettable Wedding Experiences You Can Only Have in Ireland

Not every couple dreams of a cookie-cutter celebration. Thankfully, Ireland is brimming with possibilities that speak to the wild-hearted, the poetic, and the non-conventional. I’ve worked with couples from around the world who’ve sought experiences that reflect their unique love stories—and no place delivers quite like this island. Here are five distinct Irish wedding experiences only available on the Emerald Isle. They’re soulful, bold, and a little wild—in the best way.

Exchange Vows in a Fairy Glade or Ancient Forest

Ireland’s woodland landscapes offer a setting straight from folklore. Think twisted trees, lichen-covered stones, and streams flowing softly in the background. In these sheltered groves, ceremonies feel both grounded and transportive. A barefoot entrance, floral garlands, or a harpist playing beneath the canopy—nature doesn’t need dressing up, only reverence.

Say “I Do” on a Tiny Island Only Reachable by Boat

For those craving solitude, Ireland’s coastal islands are an untamed delight. Arriving by ferry to a car-free place like Inishbofin or Clare Island creates an immediate sense of departure from the everyday. You’ll find windswept beaches, historic churches, and salt air that carries both excitement and calm. Once there, time slows. It’s a getaway in every sense, with the sea as your witness.

Marry at a Prehistoric Stone Circle or Celtic Ruins

Some couples are drawn to sacred sites that predate written history. The energy surrounding these ancient places—like Grange Stone Circle or the Burren’s dolmens—is deeply resonant. Weddings held at such locations feel rooted in something enduring. Many couples choose to align their ceremony with the solstice or lunar phases, bringing a natural rhythm to the celebration.

 

Invite a Celtic Storyteller or Seanchaí to Your Ceremony

Here, storytelling is more than tradition—it’s a living art form. Inviting a seanchaí to share legends or love tales as part of your ceremony lends texture and cultural richness. Their words—woven with cadence and charm—add a moment of stillness and reflection. Many couples also choose Irish poetry to accompany readings, blending old and new in lyrical harmony. Some even choose to incorporate traditional Irish vows into their ceremony.

Host a Communal Dinner in a Barn, Greenhouse, or Ruined Abbey

Not everyone wants a ballroom reception. Rustic barns, glass-roofed greenhouses, and ivy-cloaked ruins offer spaces with character. Long tables filled with fresh bread, local cheeses, and seasonal fare create an atmosphere of intimacy. Your guests will feel part of something authentic and heartfelt.

Ireland isn’t a backdrop—it’s a presence. Its forests, folklore, ruins, and coastal hideaways offer more than beauty – they offer meaning. If you’re looking for a place to forge your own path, the Emerald Isle is the place to do just that – with spirit and substance. I’m willing to bet you’ll find your rhythm here and I’d be honoured to help you shape every last detail.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Greg Finck and Ivana Patarcic and Cinzia Bruschini and Erik Kelley and Brosnan Photographic

The Best Season for a Destination Wedding in Ireland (It’s Not What You Think)

Ask most couples to name the best time to tie the knot in Ireland, and they’ll likely say summer. The long daylight hours, lush countryside, and the possibility of blue skies tend to sway opinion. But here’s the truth: the best season for a destination wedding in Ireland is autumn.

That’s right — autumn (or fall, as my American couples would say). From mid-September through early November, the Emerald Isle offers a depth and sophistication that you won’t quite find at any other time of year. Summer may be bright, but it’s also hectic. Venues are at capacity, vendors are stretched thin, and prices rise with the temperature. In contrast, autumn provides peace, availability, and a palette so rich it practically sets the mood for you.

Ireland in autumn is earthy tones of ochre, copper, and deep forest green. Vineyards and country estates are awash with ivy and moss in their seasonal prime. The landscape becomes a living oil painting. It’s a dream backdrop for photos. No filters required!

This time of year also brings culinary delights. Ireland’s harvest shines in autumn with wild mushrooms, root vegetables, apples, and ripe blackberries. Your wedding menu becomes a gourmet experience. Autumn means welcome drinks by an open hearth (spiced cider, perhaps?) followed by dishes of locally grown produce, finished with wildflower garnishes or tangy elderberry syrup.

And then, there’s the fashion. Autumn weddings lend themselves beautifully to brilliant attire. Brides can wear sleeves or structured gowns without concern for overheating. Grooms and groomsmen look sharp in tweeds and textured fabrics. Guests feel chic in velvet, wool, and layered ensembles that balance comfort with formality. Even floral design becomes more artistic, with dried elements, foraged textures, and moody dahlias or heirloom roses.

Let’s not sidestep the weather. Irish rain, while persistent in every season, becomes part of the ambience in autumn. A soft mist on castle grounds, puddles reflecting the gray sky, and the scent of damp leaves create the sense of an intimate storybook romance.  When you plan with the elements in mind, with elements like stylish umbrellas, indoor ceremony options, and soft and cosy throws for guests, you’ll feel prepared rather than compromised. That preparedness becomes part of the experience.

From a practical perspective, autumn weddings also mean better access to your dream team of suppliers. The busiest months have passed, allowing planners, photographers, and caterers to give more focused attention to your celebration. Popular venues are more likely to have space, and you might even secure preferred pricing or complimentary enhancements that summer couples never see.

Couples who marry in autumn often reflect on how naturally everything came together. Fewer tourists means your guests have a more authentic experience of Ireland. It’s a season that rewards those who don’t follow the crowd. Cosy pubs, coastal walks wrapped in scarves, and evenings spent around fires make it feel like a wedding and a holiday all in one. Less stress, more comfort, and a stillness to the season that lends itself to connection.

So if you’re dreaming of an elegant wedding that feels rich, distinctive and true to the spirit of Ireland, consider autumn. It’s not the obvious choice – and that’s precisely the point.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Peter Carvill