Cheese as a Wedding Cake – A Luxurious Twist

As a luxury wedding planner in Ireland, I’ve seen my fair share of trends come and go (and I talk about some of my favourites in this article on PopSugar), but one that has taken hold in recent years is the delightful and unexpected trend of using cheese as a wedding cake. This indulgent alternative to the traditional sweet cake is perfect for couples who want to offer something unique and memorable at their wedding reception. With the rise of farm-to-table dining and a renewed appreciation for artisanal Irish produce, cheese towers have become a symbol of luxury, sophistication, and a celebration of Ireland’s rich culinary heritage.

A Bespoke Culinary Experience

What makes a cheese wedding cake so alluring is its ability to offer a completely bespoke experience. Unlike traditional cakes, where you may be limited by flavour profiles and decoration, a cheese tower allows for endless customisation. As a planner, I work closely with artisan cheese suppliers to curate a selection that reflects not only the couple’s taste preferences but also their story.

Many Irish couples enjoy incorporating local cheeses into their tower, paying homage to Ireland’s world-renowned dairy industry. A typical tower might feature rich Cashel Blue from Tipperary, a smooth and creamy St Tola goat’s cheese from County Clare, and a strong, crumbly Cahill’s Porter cheese, which adds both flavour and visual intrigue with its marbled appearance. For couples wishing to indulge their guests further, I recommend adding imported cheeses to complement the Irish offerings—perhaps a delicate French Brie or a robust Manchego.

Designing the Perfect Cheese Cake

Just like a traditional wedding cake, a cheese cake can be a showstopping centrepiece. As a luxury wedding planner, my role is to ensure that the cheese tower is not only delicious but also visually stunning. Each cheese wheel is carefully chosen for its shape, colour, and texture, crafting a tiered masterpiece that rivals any confection. Garnishing the cheese tower with fresh fruits, figs, berries, and even edible flowers can add vibrant splashes of colour, while rustic elements like fresh herbs or leaves provide a natural, organic feel.

For couples desiring an extra touch of opulence, I often suggest pairing the cheese tower with artisanal breads, crackers, and a selection of chutneys and honey. A beautifully designed grazing table featuring these accompaniments, along with cured meats and pâté, creates an interactive dining experience where guests can serve themselves throughout the evening.

A Unique Take on Tradition

One of the most appealing aspects of a cheese wedding cake is its ability to turn tradition on its head without sacrificing elegance. Many couples like to keep the ceremonial cutting of the cake, but instead of the classic sweet slice, they slice into a large wheel of cheese. This can be a fun and memorable moment for the couple, and it invites guests to partake in a one-of-a-kind culinary experience. As an alternative, I often suggest serving the cheese cake alongside a more traditional dessert table, offering both sweet and savoury options to guests.

Pairing the Cheese Cake with Wine

A cheese wedding cake is more than just a savoury treat; it can also become an integral part of a couple’s overall dining experience. As part of my planning services, I often collaborate with expert sommeliers to pair each tier of the cheese cake with wines that enhance and complement the flavours. Whether it’s a crisp Sauvignon Blanc to cut through the richness of a Brie or a full-bodied Bordeaux to pair with a mature cheddar, these pairings can elevate the dining experience and add another layer of luxury.

The Perfect Ending to a Wedding Feast

In Ireland, where the landscape lends itself to exceptional dairy produce, a cheese wedding cake is the perfect way to honour local craftsmanship while adding a luxurious twist to a couple’s big day. Whether used as a savoury centrepiece or incorporated into an elaborate grazing table, this trend is a testament to how versatile and sophisticated Irish weddings can be.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Brosnan Photographic and Aspect Photography

You’re Engaged! Here’s How to Begin Planning Your Dream Destination Wedding

Congratulations, you’re engaged! That sparkling ring marks the beginning of one of life’s most enchanting adventures: planning your wedding. For couples dreaming of a destination wedding, the excitement is amplified by the allure of saying “I do” in a faraway place. However, when you’re engaged and planning a destination wedding, you’ll soon realize it’s no small feat! That’s where I come in as your luxury wedding planner. Let me guide you through the initial steps to turn your dream into reality.

Step One: Envision Your Dream Destination

Start by imagining the location that speaks to your hearts as a couple. Is it the romance of Italy’s Amalfi Coast, the charm of a French château, or the timeless beauty of an Irish castle? Perhaps you’re dreaming of tropical shores or a secluded mountain retreat. Your chosen destination sets the tone for your wedding, so ensure it reflects your personality and love story.

Consider the logistical aspects: Is the location accessible for your guests? Does it have the infrastructure to host a wedding of your desired scale? A wedding planner like myself, with destination expertise, will provide invaluable insights into these questions, helping you make a well-informed decision.

Step Two: Create a Vision and Budget

Every luxury wedding begins with a clear vision. Do you picture an opulent celebration dripping in florals or a more intimate gathering with understated elegance? Collaborate with your planner to craft a cohesive style, incorporating elements that resonate with you—whether it’s bespoke invitations, artisan catering, or live entertainment.

Equally important is understanding that a luxury wedding is an investment, and having clarity on where to allocate resources ensures your priorities are met. Your planner will help you identify costs unique to destination weddings, such as travel logistics, accommodations, and local vendor fees.

Step Three: Build Your Guest List

Destination weddings often lend themselves to more intimate guest lists, as not everyone will be able to travel. Consider creating a “VIP” list of essential attendees. Communicate your plans early, allowing guests ample time to make arrangements. A thoughtfully crafted wedding website can be an excellent resource for sharing itineraries, travel details, and accommodations.

Step Four: Partner with a Local Expert

A luxury destination wedding requires impeccable coordination. As your wedding planner, I work with a trusted network of local vendors who understand the nuances of your chosen destination. Whether that is securing a stunning venue or navigating local marriage laws and customs, my expertise ensures a seamless experience. I also serve as your advocate, ensuring that cultural and logistical elements blend harmoniously with your vision.

Step Five: Plan an Unforgettable Experience

A destination wedding is not just a single-day event—it’s a journey for you and your guests. Consider curating a multi-day celebration. Think welcome cocktails overlooking the cliffs of Moher, a rehearsal dinner featuring regional cuisine, and post-wedding activities like guided tours or spa retreats. These moments create cherished memories for you and your loved ones.

Step Six: Trust the Process

When you’re engaged and planning a destination wedding you may find yourself feeling overwhelmed, but take heart! It’s a journey worth savouring. With the right team by your side, every detail is thoughtfully handled. From scouting venues to finalising floral arrangements, I’ll ensure that the experience is as enjoyable as the day itself.

Your engagement marks the start of an extraordinary chapter. Let’s craft a destination wedding that’s as unique and unforgettable as your love story.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Story of Eve

5 Essential Tips for Hosting Your Destination Wedding in Ireland

Hosting a destination wedding in Ireland is like having a fairytale wedding set against the backdrop of rolling green hills, ancient castles, and breathtaking coastlines. But it requires careful planning to ensure everything goes smoothly! Here are five essential tips for hosting your destination wedding in Ireland:

Choose the Perfect Venue

The key to a successful destination wedding in Ireland is selecting the perfect venue that reflects your style and vision. Whether you envision exchanging vows in a majestic castle, a quaint countryside manor, or overlooking the rugged cliffs of the Wild Atlantic Way, Ireland offers a diverse range of stunning locations to suit every taste. When you do your research, be sure to consider your guest list, accessibility, and (if possible) schedule site visits to get a firsthand feel of each location’s ambiance.

Consider the Weather

Ireland’s weather is notoriously unpredictable. Even in the summer, it’s crucial to consider the weather and have contingency plans in place. Make sure you tour venues that offer indoor and outdoor spaces, or consider renting marquees or tents for outdoor ceremonies and receptions. Additionally, provide your guests with practical advice on dressing in layers and bringing umbrellas, ensuring everyone stays comfortable regardless of the weather.

Navigate Legal Requirements

One of my top tips for hosting your destination wedding in Ireland is hiring a local wedding planner who can guide you through navigating legal requirements. Non-residents must give at least three months’ notice to the Registrar’s Office, providing documentation such as passports, birth certificates, and a declaration of marital status. Additionally, you may need to fulfil other legal obligations, such as obtaining a marriage visa or completing pre-marriage courses.

Embrace Irish Traditions

Immerse yourself in the rich culture and traditions of Ireland by incorporating elements of Irish heritage into your wedding celebration. From Celtic handfasting ceremonies to the warming of the ring ceremony to traditional Irish music and dance performances, there are countless ways to infuse your wedding with authentic Irish charm. Consider serving traditional dishes like colcannon or soda bread, or offer guests a taste of Ireland with a whisky or Guinness tasting station.

Plan for Transportation and Accommodation

Ensure a seamless experience for you and your guests by arranging transportation and accommodation well in advance. Consider hiring shuttles or buses to transport guests between the ceremony and reception venues, especially if they are located in different locations. Provide guests with a list of recommended accommodations and consider negotiating group rates for added convenience. By taking care of transportation and accommodation logistics, you’ll ensure that your guests can focus on enjoying the celebration without any worries.

Hosting a destination wedding in Ireland is a magical experience that requires careful planning and attention to detail. By choosing the perfect venue, considering the weather, navigating legal requirements, embracing Irish traditions, and planning for transportation and accommodation, you can ensure your dream wedding will be a brilliant affair celebration of love.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Eric Kelley

Top Cocktail Trends of 2024 for Your Destination Wedding

As a destination wedding planner I can confidently say the role of cocktails has evolved beyond simple refreshments to become integral elements of the celebration. Today’s cocktails reflect the locale, culture, and personal style of the couple. The top cocktail trends of 2024 for destination weddings are all about innovation, sustainability, and a deep connection to the wedding’s setting. Here’s a look at what’s making waves in the world of wedding cocktails this year.

Interactive Cocktail Experiences

Interactive elements are transforming cocktail service into an experience in itself. In 2024, destination weddings are seeing the rise of cocktail stations where guests can get involved in creating their own drinks. Think build-your-own margarita bars at a Mexican beach wedding or DIY Irish coffee stations at a cosy winter celebration in the countryside. These experiences allow guests to tailor their drinks to their liking, adding an element of engagement to the event.

Signature Cocktail Bars

Personalisation continues to reign supreme, with couples curating bespoke cocktail bars that reflect their tastes and the spirit of their destination. Signature cocktails named after meaningful locations or moments in the couple’s relationship are becoming increasingly popular. Think: a “Royale Raspberry Martini” at a historic castle or a “Sunset Spritz” inspired by the golden hour in which the couple first met.

Locally Sourced Ingredients

One of the biggest trends in 2024 is the use of locally sourced ingredients. Couples are choosing to highlight the flavours of their wedding destination by incorporating native fruits, herbs, and spirits into their cocktail menus. For example, an Irish destination wedding might feature cocktails made with wild elderflower, fresh blackberries, or Irish gin, giving guests a true taste of the locale. Locally sourced ingredients enhance the authenticity of the experience while also supporting local producers and showcasing the region’s unique offerings.

Sustainability and Eco-Friendly Practices

Sustainability is more than just a trend—it’s a movement that’s influencing every aspect of weddings, including cocktails. In 2024, eco-conscious couples are opting for cocktails that are not only delicious but also kind to the environment. (The kind of cocktails that would go over brilliantly at an extravagant garden wedding.) This includes using organic spirits, biodegradable straws, and garnishes that are either edible or compostable. Bartenders are getting creative with zero-waste cocktails, using every part of the fruit or herb, and even recycling ingredients to reduce the carbon footprint of the wedding bar.

Floral and Herbal Infusions

Floral and herbal-infused cocktails are making a strong statement in 2024, particularly at weddings where the natural beauty of the destination plays a central role. Lavender, rosemary, and elderflower are popular choices for infusions, adding a delicate, aromatic touch to cocktails. For a vineyard wedding, herbs from the vineyard garden could be used to create bespoke infusions, while a wedding in a lush, tropical locale might feature hibiscus or passionflower in the cocktails. These botanical elements not only enhance the flavours but also tie the cocktails to the natural surroundings.

Low-ABV and Non-Alcoholic Options

As wellness becomes a greater priority for many, the trend towards low-alcohol (Low-ABV) and non-alcoholic cocktails is growing. Couples are increasingly including these options to cater to a broader range of guests. Non-alcoholic cocktails are no longer an afterthought; they are crafted with the same attention to detail as traditional cocktails, ensuring that everyone who has travelled to your wedding can enjoy a sophisticated drink, regardless of their preferences.

In 2024, cocktail trends for destination weddings are all about reflecting the couple’s unique story and the beauty of their chosen location. Whether through locally sourced ingredients, interactive cocktail stations, or eco-friendly practices, the drinks served at these celebrations are designed to leaving guests with lasting impressions of the couple’s special day. So, as you plan your destination wedding, consider these trends to make your cocktail hour something to write home about.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Story of Eve and Lisa O’Dwyer and Brosnan Photographic

Four Seasons in a Day: The Beauty of Getting Married in Irish Weather

Ireland, often referred to as the Emerald Isle, is a land of breathtaking landscapes, historic castles, and a weather pattern that is as unpredictable as it is charming. One of the most unique and enchanting aspects of getting married in Ireland is the possibility of experiencing four seasons in a single day. While this may sound daunting to some, with the right planning, it can add a magical and vibrant touch to your wedding, making it an unforgettable experience for you and your guests.

The Mystery of Irish Weather

The weather in Ireland is famously changeable. You might wake up to a crisp, sunny morning, only to find yourself sheltering from a brief shower by noon, enjoying a balmy afternoon, and perhaps witnessing a misty, romantic evening. This dynamic weather can be a beautiful metaphor for the journey of marriage itself, full of unexpected moments that bring depth and richness to your life together.

Planning for the Unpredictable

The key to embracing Ireland’s capricious weather is preparation. Here are some tips to ensure your wedding day is as smooth as it is spectacular:

Flexible Attire: When I plan an Irish wedding, I plan for four seasons. Literally. I bring shawls, sunscreen, hats, umbrellas and blankets. I remind my couples to encourage their bridal party and guests to dress in layers. (Here’s a great list you can share of what to pack for an Irish destination wedding.) Elegant shawls and cosy wraps can be worn on or off and add a touch of sophistication while keeping everyone comfortable. Brides might consider a dress with removable sleeves or a chic bolero. And I always encourage dresses to have the hems professional sprayed to protect from rain and muddy ground.

Outdoor and Indoor Venues: Choose a venue that offers both outdoor and indoor spaces. Many Irish castles and country estates provide beautiful gardens and grand indoor halls, allowing you to seamlessly transition between settings as the weather dictates.

Weather-Proof Décor: If your ceremony or reception is outdoors, look for decorations that can withstand a bit of wind or rain. Sturdy floral arrangements, waterproof table settings, and resilient fabrics will ensure that your décor remains stunning regardless of the weather.

Embrace the Elements: Incorporate the natural elements into your wedding theme. Use the rain as an opportunity for romantic photographs with umbrellas, capture the sunlight glistening off the dew, or let the wind add a whimsical touch to your veil and dress. Some of my favourite photos are those in which the couple leaned into the changing weather, resulting in some pretty epic portraits.

Capturing the Magic

Speaking of epic portraits, your wedding photographer will play a crucial role in capturing the beauty of Ireland’s weather. Choose a photographer experienced in shooting in various conditions, ensuring they can adapt to changing light and weather to create breathtaking images that tell the story of your day. Your wedding planner will be able to connect you with the best local photographers with the most experience.

Getting married in Ireland and embracing the possibility of four seasons in a day can turn your wedding into a truly unique and unforgettable celebration. By planning thoughtfully and viewing the weather as an enhancement rather than a hindrance, you’ll find that each change in the sky adds a new layer of beauty and excitement to your celebration. So, pack your wellies alongside your wedding shoes, and get ready to say “I do” in one of the most enchanting places on earth.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Brett Harkness Photography, Aspect Photography and Ivana Patarcic Photography 

Extravagant Garden Weddings Inspired by the 2024 Met Gala

In my opinion, nothing exudes romance and sophistication quite like a garden wedding. In 2024, the Met Gala has set an inspiring precedent for lavish, nature-inspired events, making it the perfect muse for couples seeking an extravagant garden wedding. This year’s Met Gala was a feast for the senses, blending opulence with the organic beauty of nature. Ultimately, it created a vision that seamlessly translates into the ultimate dream wedding.

The Allure of Nature Meets High Fashion

The 2024 Met Gala, themed “Sleeping Beauties: Reawakening Fashion” and with a dress code of “The Garden of Time,” showcased the most glamorous interpretations of the natural world. Celebrities graced the red carpet adorned in couture gowns reminiscent of blooming gardens, cascading waterfalls, and lush bouquets. This celebration of nature’s splendor provides the perfect blueprint for a grand garden wedding.

Setting the Scene: A Verdant Venue

Choosing the right venue is paramount to capturing the essence of a Met Gala-inspired garden wedding. Opt for a botanical garden, an estate with sprawling lawns, or a historic mansion surrounded by lush greenery. A great example of this theme is found in the above image of Ryan and Emily’s Fairytale Wedding at Adare Manor. These venues offer a natural backdrop that can be enhanced with luxurious floral arrangements and elaborate landscaping. Picture a ceremony beneath a canopy of wisteria, with petals scattered along the aisle, or a reception under the stars with twinkling fairy lights woven through ancient trees.

If we are taking inspiration from the Met Gala, where florals were not just accents but central to the overall aesthetic, your wedding should feature abundant, artfully arranged flowers. Think oversized floral installations, such as arches dripping with orchids and roses, tablescapes overflowing with peonies and hydrangeas, and even floral chandeliers. Each arrangement should display the wild beauty of nature, but with a touch of curated elegance to make it feel like an enchanted forest.

Sumptuous Dining in Nature’s Lap

Continuing the theme, a garden wedding inspired by the Met Gala should offer a dining experience that is as visually stunning as it is delicious. I imagine this as long banquet tables adorned with cascading floral centerpieces, gilded tableware, and crystal glassware. Menus can draw on fresh, seasonal ingredients, reflecting the bounty of the garden. I love the idea of serving dishes that incorporate edible flowers and herbs, along with signature cocktails infused with botanical flavours.

Fashion Forward Bridal and Guest Attire

The Met Gala is ultimately a fashion show, so it’s imperative to channel the high-fashion sensibility of the Met Gala into your wedding attire. For the bride, consider a gown that combines traditional elements with avant-garde details—perhaps a dress with intricate floral appliqués, a dramatic train that mimics cascading vines, or a delicate lace bodice reminiscent of spider silk. Bridesmaids can wear gowns in varying shades of green, pink, or even metallic hues that imitate the organic colours of the garden.

To take it one step further, guests should be encouraged to dress in their finest garden-inspired attire. With this motivation, your wedding will be sure to create a scene straight out of a fashion editorial. You can aid your attendees in choosing the right attire by offering the image of a natural theme with botanical prints, soft pastels, and elegant fabrics.

Entertainment to Enchant

In true Met Gala fashion, entertainment should be an unforgettable spectacle. Live music can create a magical atmosphere. For a touch of whimsy, consider adding performances by acrobats or dancers dressed as woodland creatures, bringing a fantastical element to the evening. When you give your entertainers a enchanted place to perform, they will seamlessly blend in to the celebration and likely be inspired by such a creative and marvellous atmosphere.

When you have gone to such great lengths to create an extravagant garden wedding, it’s important to ensure that every moment is captured with the same meticulous detail that characterizes the Met Gala. Hiring a skilled photographer and videographer who can capture the interplay of light and nature, the intricate details of the décor, and the joyous moments shared with loved ones will allow you to relive the magic for years to come.

Inspired by the grandeur and natural beauty celebrated at the 2024 Met Gala, an extravagant garden wedding can be a breathtaking blend of opulence and organic charm. With an event planner that prioritizes thoughtful organisation and attention to detail, your special day can become a timeless celebration that mirrors the elegance of the Met Gala and the timeless beauty of nature.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Brosnan Photographic