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What is the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony?

by Harmony Walton

Breathtaking weddings are steeped in Ireland’s history, culture, and enchantment. One of the most beautiful and symbolic Irish wedding traditions that many couples incorporate into their ceremonies is the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony. This age-old custom is not only a romantic nod to Ireland’s past but also a meaningful way to bless the couple’s union with love and harmony.

The Significance of Wedding Bells in Irish Tradition

Wedding bells have long been associated with Irish nuptials. Historically, the ringing of bells was believed to ward off evil spirits and ensure a marriage filled with good fortune. The bell’s chime was also thought to bring clarity and peace, reminding couples of their vows during times of difficulty. In modern weddings, this tradition has evolved into the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony—a heartfelt moment that adds a touch of magic and sentimentality to the celebration.

How the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony Works

During the ceremony, a small handbell—often crafted from fine silver or a family heirloom—is rung either by the officiant, the couple, or even their guests. This gentle chime symbolises the blessings of love, unity, and everlasting happiness. There are a few different ways to incorporate this tradition into a luxury wedding, and I often work with couples to personalise it to suit their style and preferences.

The Couple’s Bell Ringing: Just before or after exchanging vows, the couple rings the wedding bell together, symbolising their commitment and the joyful beginning of their life as one.

The Guests’ Blessing: Small bells can be distributed among guests, allowing them to ring them in celebration as the couple shares their first kiss or is pronounced married. This creates a stunning auditory experience, reminiscent of church bells ringing in the distance.

A Keepsake Bell: Many couples choose to have a specially designed wedding bell engraved with their names and wedding date, serving as a cherished keepsake that they can ring during anniversaries as a reminder of their vows.

Ringing Away Disputes: A charming interpretation of this tradition suggests that whenever a disagreement arises, ringing the wedding bell will bring harmony back to the marriage, reinforcing the values of love and understanding.

Incorporating Wedding Bells into an Irish Wedding

For couples seeking an exquisite destination wedding in Ireland, the Wedding Bell Ceremony adds a unique cultural and sentimental touch. I often recommend custom-made bells from renowned Irish artisans, featuring intricate Celtic designs, family crests, or even a touch of gold for added opulence. Some couples may choose to incorporate the bell motif into wedding stationery, table décor, or favours to further enhance this elegant theme.

At some of Ireland’s most luxurious wedding venues—think fairytale castles, stately manors, or coastal retreats—the gentle chime of wedding bells can beautifully echo through historic halls or open landscapes, making the moment truly unforgettable.

A Tradition That Stands the Test of Time

The Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony is a poetic and symbolic way to honour Irish heritage while embracing a timeless ritual of love and unity. What I love most about this tradition is knowing the sweet sound of wedding bells will forever resonate as a blessing upon your marriage. Here’s to your lifetime of harmony and happiness.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by John Cain Photography

Cheese as a Wedding Cake – A Luxurious Twist

by Harmony Walton

As a luxury wedding planner in Ireland, I’ve seen my fair share of trends come and go (and I talk about some of my favourites in this article on PopSugar), but one that has taken hold in recent years is the delightful and unexpected trend of using cheese as a wedding cake. This indulgent alternative to the traditional sweet cake is perfect for couples who want to offer something unique and memorable at their wedding reception. With the rise of farm-to-table dining and a renewed appreciation for artisanal Irish produce, cheese towers have become a symbol of luxury, sophistication, and a celebration of Ireland’s rich culinary heritage.

A Bespoke Culinary Experience

What makes a cheese wedding cake so alluring is its ability to offer a completely bespoke experience. Unlike traditional cakes, where you may be limited by flavour profiles and decoration, a cheese tower allows for endless customisation. As a planner, I work closely with artisan cheese suppliers to curate a selection that reflects not only the couple’s taste preferences but also their story.

Many Irish couples enjoy incorporating local cheeses into their tower, paying homage to Ireland’s world-renowned dairy industry. A typical tower might feature rich Cashel Blue from Tipperary, a smooth and creamy St Tola goat’s cheese from County Clare, and a strong, crumbly Cahill’s Porter cheese, which adds both flavour and visual intrigue with its marbled appearance. For couples wishing to indulge their guests further, I recommend adding imported cheeses to complement the Irish offerings—perhaps a delicate French Brie or a robust Manchego.

Designing the Perfect Cheese Cake

Just like a traditional wedding cake, a cheese cake can be a showstopping centrepiece. As a luxury wedding planner, my role is to ensure that the cheese tower is not only delicious but also visually stunning. Each cheese wheel is carefully chosen for its shape, colour, and texture, crafting a tiered masterpiece that rivals any confection. Garnishing the cheese tower with fresh fruits, figs, berries, and even edible flowers can add vibrant splashes of colour, while rustic elements like fresh herbs or leaves provide a natural, organic feel.

For couples desiring an extra touch of opulence, I often suggest pairing the cheese tower with artisanal breads, crackers, and a selection of chutneys and honey. A beautifully designed grazing table featuring these accompaniments, along with cured meats and pâté, creates an interactive dining experience where guests can serve themselves throughout the evening.

A Unique Take on Tradition

One of the most appealing aspects of a cheese wedding cake is its ability to turn tradition on its head without sacrificing elegance. Many couples like to keep the ceremonial cutting of the cake, but instead of the classic sweet slice, they slice into a large wheel of cheese. This can be a fun and memorable moment for the couple, and it invites guests to partake in a one-of-a-kind culinary experience. As an alternative, I often suggest serving the cheese cake alongside a more traditional dessert table, offering both sweet and savoury options to guests.

Pairing the Cheese Cake with Wine

A cheese wedding cake is more than just a savoury treat; it can also become an integral part of a couple’s overall dining experience. As part of my planning services, I often collaborate with expert sommeliers to pair each tier of the cheese cake with wines that enhance and complement the flavours. Whether it’s a crisp Sauvignon Blanc to cut through the richness of a Brie or a full-bodied Bordeaux to pair with a mature cheddar, these pairings can elevate the dining experience and add another layer of luxury.

The Perfect Ending to a Wedding Feast

In Ireland, where the landscape lends itself to exceptional dairy produce, a cheese wedding cake is the perfect way to honour local craftsmanship while adding a luxurious twist to a couple’s big day. Whether used as a savoury centrepiece or incorporated into an elaborate grazing table, this trend is a testament to how versatile and sophisticated Irish weddings can be.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Brosnan Photographic and Aspect Photography

2025 Destination Wedding Location Ideas: Luxury Celebrations in Portugal, Mallorca, and Ireland

by Harmony Walton

As a luxury wedding planner, one of my greatest joys is curating unforgettable experiences in some of the most stunning locations across Europe. For couples seeking the perfect destination to say “I do” in 2025, there are many options that offer unparalleled beauty, charm, and bespoke opportunities to make your special day truly extraordinary. Let me guide you through a few of my favourite 2025 destination wedding location ideas.

Portugal: Sun-kissed Elegance

Portugal continues to captivate couples with its warm climate, golden coastlines, and rich cultural heritage. For 2025, the Algarve’s sun-drenched beaches remain a timeless choice, but Lisbon and Sintra are emerging as luxury wedding hot spots. (Here are some I think are brilliant.)

When you think Portugal, think Lisbon. Historic palaces and chic rooftop venues overlooking the city’s iconic terracotta rooftops create the perfect backdrop for a cosmopolitan celebration. Sintra, with its fairy-tale castles such as the Palácio de Pena, create a romantic and whimsical setting amidst lush, rolling hills.

One unique trend I’ve seen is incorporating Portugal’s famous gastronomy into the wedding menu. Fresh seafood, pastel de nata desserts, and world-class wines. A live Fado performance adds a soulful touch. These are the kinds of memories that guests will treasure forever.

Mallorca: Mediterranean Bliss

Mallorca, the crown jewel of the Balearic Islands, is a haven for couples dreaming of a sun-soaked wedding with a touch of glamour. This Mediterranean paradise combines natural beauty with sophisticated luxury. Imagine exchanging vows at a clifftop villa overlooking the azure sea or hosting a reception in a historic finca nestled among olive groves and vineyards. The island’s luxury hotels offer impeccable service and exclusivity for couples wanting a flawless experience.

For 2025, consider embracing Mallorca’s bohemian-chic vibe. Decor inspired by the island’s natural palette—terracotta, creamy whites, and lush greens—pairs beautifully with al fresco dining under twinkling fairy lights. Serve your guests local delicacies like sobrassada and ensaïmada, paired with Mallorcan wines. You can’t go wrong in Mallorca.

Ireland: Timeless Romance

Ireland’s romantic allure will forever make it one of the best destination wedding locations. In 2025, it continues to enchant couples who desire an elegant wedding steeped in tradition and natural beauty. In Ireland, there are so many options to consider. Imagine a ceremony in the grandeur of a castle like Ashford or Adare, followed by a reception in a stately ballroom adorned with cascading floral arrangements. For those seeking something more intimate, a clifftop vow exchange offers breathtaking views and timeless wonder for all who attend.

One trend gaining momentum in Ireland is the use of seasonal touches that celebrate the country’s rich heritage—autumn weddings featuring warm, earthy tones and hearty menus, or spring ceremonies bursting with wildflowers and fresh, local fare. (Much like Aimee and Shane’s autumn wedding at Adare Manor.)

Why Choose One? Combine Them!

For couples truly seeking a once-in-a-lifetime experience, a multi-destination wedding is a rising trend. Begin with a chic civil ceremony in Lisbon, host a pre-wedding soirée in Mallorca, and conclude with a grand celebration in an Irish castle. The possibilities are as limitless as your imagination.

Each of these 2025 destination wedding location ideas offers a unique canvas for your dream day. Let’s make it extraordinary together!

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Story of Eve and Anée Atelier

You’re Engaged! Here’s How to Begin Planning Your Dream Destination Wedding

by Harmony Walton

Congratulations, you’re engaged! That sparkling ring marks the beginning of one of life’s most enchanting adventures: planning your wedding. For couples dreaming of a destination wedding, the excitement is amplified by the allure of saying “I do” in a faraway place. However, when you’re engaged and planning a destination wedding, you’ll soon realize it’s no small feat! That’s where I come in as your luxury wedding planner. Let me guide you through the initial steps to turn your dream into reality.

Step One: Envision Your Dream Destination

Start by imagining the location that speaks to your hearts as a couple. Is it the romance of Italy’s Amalfi Coast, the charm of a French château, or the timeless beauty of an Irish castle? Perhaps you’re dreaming of tropical shores or a secluded mountain retreat. Your chosen destination sets the tone for your wedding, so ensure it reflects your personality and love story.

Consider the logistical aspects: Is the location accessible for your guests? Does it have the infrastructure to host a wedding of your desired scale? A wedding planner like myself, with destination expertise, will provide invaluable insights into these questions, helping you make a well-informed decision.

Step Two: Create a Vision and Budget

Every luxury wedding begins with a clear vision. Do you picture an opulent celebration dripping in florals or a more intimate gathering with understated elegance? Collaborate with your planner to craft a cohesive style, incorporating elements that resonate with you—whether it’s bespoke invitations, artisan catering, or live entertainment.

Equally important is understanding that a luxury wedding is an investment, and having clarity on where to allocate resources ensures your priorities are met. Your planner will help you identify costs unique to destination weddings, such as travel logistics, accommodations, and local vendor fees.

Step Three: Build Your Guest List

Destination weddings often lend themselves to more intimate guest lists, as not everyone will be able to travel. Consider creating a “VIP” list of essential attendees. Communicate your plans early, allowing guests ample time to make arrangements. A thoughtfully crafted wedding website can be an excellent resource for sharing itineraries, travel details, and accommodations.

Step Four: Partner with a Local Expert

A luxury destination wedding requires impeccable coordination. As your wedding planner, I work with a trusted network of local vendors who understand the nuances of your chosen destination. Whether that is securing a stunning venue or navigating local marriage laws and customs, my expertise ensures a seamless experience. I also serve as your advocate, ensuring that cultural and logistical elements blend harmoniously with your vision.

Step Five: Plan an Unforgettable Experience

A destination wedding is not just a single-day event—it’s a journey for you and your guests. Consider curating a multi-day celebration. Think welcome cocktails overlooking the cliffs of Moher, a rehearsal dinner featuring regional cuisine, and post-wedding activities like guided tours or spa retreats. These moments create cherished memories for you and your loved ones.

Step Six: Trust the Process

When you’re engaged and planning a destination wedding you may find yourself feeling overwhelmed, but take heart! It’s a journey worth savouring. With the right team by your side, every detail is thoughtfully handled. From scouting venues to finalising floral arrangements, I’ll ensure that the experience is as enjoyable as the day itself.

Your engagement marks the start of an extraordinary chapter. Let’s craft a destination wedding that’s as unique and unforgettable as your love story.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Story of Eve

Celebrate the New Year in Ireland

by Harmony Walton

As the New Year approaches, many couples look for unique and luxurious ways to celebrate and welcome a fresh start together. If you’re looking for some ideas to celebrate the New Year in Ireland, let’s get started! With its breathtaking landscapes, charming cities, and rich history, this country offers an array of elegant options. (Are you a New Year baby? Here are some ideas to celebrate your birthday like no other in Ireland!)

A Castle Retreat

What could be more romantic and luxurious than starting the year in a majestic Irish castle? Ireland is home to many castles that have been transformed into luxury hotels. These locations provide the perfect setting for a memorable celebration, combining history, grandeur, and modern comforts. Ashford Castle, for example, offers a spectacular New Year’s Eve package that includes gourmet dining, live entertainment, and a dazzling fireworks display over Lough Corrib. Staying in a castle allows couples to experience Ireland’s rich heritage while being pampered in lavish surroundings.

Private Fireworks and Champagne Toast

For couples seeking exclusivity, renting a private villa or luxury holiday home overlooking the Irish coastline or countryside is the perfect way to celebrate in solitude. Hire a party planner to take care of all the details so you can relax and focus on the upcoming year. Many high-end properties can arrange for private fireworks displays to mark the stroke of midnight. Enjoy a glass of champagne under the stars while fireworks light up the sky and the rugged Irish landscape.

Fine Dining at Michelin-Star Restaurants

Ireland boasts a number of Michelin-starred restaurants that offer exquisite dining experiences, ideal for couples wishing to indulge in the finest cuisine. In Dublin, Chapter One or Liath create culinary masterpieces using locally sourced, seasonal ingredients, providing an unforgettable dining experience. For a countryside escape, The Oak Room at Adare Manor in County Limerick delivers world-class dining in a sumptuous setting. Many of these restaurants offer special New Year’s Eve tasting menus, paired with the finest wines and champagnes, making it a true night to remember.

Scenic Hot Air Balloon Ride

Take your New Year’s celebration to new heights with a scenic hot air balloon ride over Ireland’s picturesque landscapes. Drifting peacefully over the rolling hills, castles, and coastlines of Ireland while watching the sunset on the final day of the year is a romantic and breathtaking experience. Many operators offer private balloon flights, making this an intimate adventure for couples who want to start the year off in a truly unforgettable way.

Luxury Spa Weekend

Relax into the New Year. Stay at one of Ireland’s renowned luxury spa hotels. Properties like The Europe Hotel & Resort in Killarney offer indulgent spa treatments, infinity pools overlooking scenic lakes, and world-class amenities. Couples can spend the last days of the year unwinding with massages and wellness rituals before toasting to the New Year in plush robes, sipping champagne by a roaring fire.

Whether it’s a castle stay, a Michelin-star dining experience, or a serene spa retreat, Ireland offers countless ways for couples to ring in the New Year luxuriously. Ireland always ensures that every New Year’s celebration is as memorable and magical as the last.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Story of Eve and Anée Atelier

Four Seasons in a Day: The Beauty of Getting Married in Irish Weather

by Harmony Walton

Ireland, often referred to as the Emerald Isle, is a land of breathtaking landscapes, historic castles, and a weather pattern that is as unpredictable as it is charming. One of the most unique and enchanting aspects of getting married in Ireland is the possibility of experiencing four seasons in a single day. While this may sound daunting to some, with the right planning, it can add a magical and vibrant touch to your wedding, making it an unforgettable experience for you and your guests.

The Mystery of Irish Weather

The weather in Ireland is famously changeable. You might wake up to a crisp, sunny morning, only to find yourself sheltering from a brief shower by noon, enjoying a balmy afternoon, and perhaps witnessing a misty, romantic evening. This dynamic weather can be a beautiful metaphor for the journey of marriage itself, full of unexpected moments that bring depth and richness to your life together.

Planning for the Unpredictable

The key to embracing Ireland’s capricious weather is preparation. Here are some tips to ensure your wedding day is as smooth as it is spectacular:

Flexible Attire: When I plan an Irish wedding, I plan for four seasons. Literally. I bring shawls, sunscreen, hats, umbrellas and blankets. I remind my couples to encourage their bridal party and guests to dress in layers. (Here’s a great list you can share of what to pack for an Irish destination wedding.) Elegant shawls and cosy wraps can be worn on or off and add a touch of sophistication while keeping everyone comfortable. Brides might consider a dress with removable sleeves or a chic bolero. And I always encourage dresses to have the hems professional sprayed to protect from rain and muddy ground.

Outdoor and Indoor Venues: Choose a venue that offers both outdoor and indoor spaces. Many Irish castles and country estates provide beautiful gardens and grand indoor halls, allowing you to seamlessly transition between settings as the weather dictates.

Weather-Proof Décor: If your ceremony or reception is outdoors, look for decorations that can withstand a bit of wind or rain. Sturdy floral arrangements, waterproof table settings, and resilient fabrics will ensure that your décor remains stunning regardless of the weather.

Embrace the Elements: Incorporate the natural elements into your wedding theme. Use the rain as an opportunity for romantic photographs with umbrellas, capture the sunlight glistening off the dew, or let the wind add a whimsical touch to your veil and dress. Some of my favourite photos are those in which the couple leaned into the changing weather, resulting in some pretty epic portraits.

Capturing the Magic

Speaking of epic portraits, your wedding photographer will play a crucial role in capturing the beauty of Ireland’s weather. Choose a photographer experienced in shooting in various conditions, ensuring they can adapt to changing light and weather to create breathtaking images that tell the story of your day. Your wedding planner will be able to connect you with the best local photographers with the most experience.

Getting married in Ireland and embracing the possibility of four seasons in a day can turn your wedding into a truly unique and unforgettable celebration. By planning thoughtfully and viewing the weather as an enhancement rather than a hindrance, you’ll find that each change in the sky adds a new layer of beauty and excitement to your celebration. So, pack your wellies alongside your wedding shoes, and get ready to say “I do” in one of the most enchanting places on earth.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Brett Harkness Photography, Aspect Photography and Ivana Patarcic Photography