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The Irish Mead Sharing Ceremony: A Symbolic Toast to Love

by Harmony Walton

When I’m asked to weave ancient traditions into elegant, modern celebrations, one of my favourite suggestions is a tradition that has captivated couples seeking a meaningful and unique ritual: the Irish Mead Sharing Ceremony. This ancient Celtic custom, steeped in history and romance, is a beautiful way to symbolise love, prosperity, and the sweet journey of marriage.

The History and Significance of Mead in Irish Weddings

Mead, often referred to as the ‘nectar of the gods,’ is one of the oldest alcoholic beverages in the world and has deep roots in Irish history. Made from fermented honey, water, and herbs, mead was believed to have magical and aphrodisiac properties. In Celtic tradition, newlyweds would drink mead for a full lunar cycle (or a ‘honeymoon’) to promote fertility and ensure a strong and harmonious union. This is where the term ‘honeymoon’ originates, making mead an incredibly symbolic beverage for wedding celebrations.

How the Irish Mead Sharing Ceremony Works

During the ceremony, a beautifully crafted goblet or a pair of engraved chalices filled with mead is presented to the couple. The act of sharing this sacred drink symbolises their commitment to one another and the sweetness of their future together. After exchanging vows, the couple takes turns sipping mead from a shared goblet, signifying their unity and devotion. In some ceremonies, close family members or guests also take part by offering blessings before the couple shares their first sip. Others may ask their parents or closest friends read a meaningful poem before sipping the mead.

Some couples choose to have a bespoke blend of mead created, infused with botanicals that hold personal or cultural significance. The type of mead can also be chosen to suit personal tastes, from a rich, spiced variety to a light, floral-infused blend. Additionally, miniature bottles of mead can be gifted to guests as a luxurious and meaningful keepsake of the special day.

Elevating the Mead Ceremony in a Luxury Setting

For couples planning an opulent destination wedding in Ireland, the Mead Sharing Ceremony can be beautifully tailored to match the grandeur of their venue. Whether set against the backdrop of a majestic castle, a historic estate, or an intimate countryside retreat, this ritual adds a touch of old-world charm and sophistication. I often suggest collaborating with Ireland’s finest mead producers to source premium, locally crafted mead that enhances the experience. Personalised goblets engraved with the couple’s names, wedding date, or a Celtic knot design can be a beautiful and elegant addition. The mead-sharing moment can also be accompanied by a harpist or a traditional Irish toast to create a truly magical atmosphere.

The Irish Mead Sharing Ceremony is a timeless and deeply romantic wedding ritual that perfectly complements the grandeur of a luxury Irish destination wedding. It’s a tradition that sweetens the journey ahead. Whether embraced as a nod to Irish heritage or simply as a heartfelt symbol of love and unity, sharing mead with your beloved (and your beloved guests) is a beautiful way to begin your journey as a married couple—one sip at a time.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Anée Atelier and John Cain Photography

Your Irish Destination Wedding Planning Timeline

by Harmony Walton

One of the most common questions I hear from couples dreaming of a destination wedding in Ireland is: “How much time do I really need to plan everything?” The truth is, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer, as every wedding is unique. However, to ensure a seamless and stress-free experience, here’s a realistic destination wedding planning timeline based on my expertise.

The ideal planning window is between 12 and 18 months.

If you want the luxury of choice, a stress-free planning experience, and the best selection of venues and suppliers, this timeframe is perfect. The first steps include setting your date and budget, securing your ideal wedding season, and booking your venue. Irish castles, manor houses, and coastal retreats book up quickly, especially during peak wedding season from May to September. Hiring a wedding planner at this stage is highly recommended, as having an expert on the ground is invaluable for navigating logistics, supplier coordination, and local nuances. This is also the time to secure key suppliers such as photographers, caterers, florists, and entertainment to ensure availability.

Between 9 and 12 months before the wedding, the focus shifts.

It’s now time to send out save-the-dates, as destination weddings require ample notice for guests. Accommodation and transport arrangements should be finalised, including reserving room blocks and organising local transport options. It is also crucial to begin legal paperwork, as Ireland has specific marriage requirements that may necessitate extra documentation depending on your nationality. Many couples opt to extend their Irish wedding into a multi-day affair, incorporating welcome dinners and farewell brunches, which should also be planned at this stage.

At 6 to 9 months before the wedding, finer details begin to take shape.

Wedding attire should be selected, with extra time allocated for fittings and shipping if ordering a custom or designer gown. If possible, a visit to Ireland to finalise food and drink selections through menu and cake tastings is highly beneficial. Design and décor elements, such as floral arrangements and tablescapes, should be confirmed, along with any special entertainment or cultural experiences, such as traditional Irish musicians, dancers, or whiskey tastings.

Between 3 and 6 months prior to the wedding, it’s time to refine logistics.

Travel plans should be confirmed, ensuring that flights and accommodation are booked for both the couple and their guests. The ceremony details must be finalised, including officiants and any necessary paperwork. At this point, guest RSVPs should be collected, seating plans arranged, and hair and makeup trials scheduled, either in advance or a day or two before the wedding.

In the final 1 to 3 months, it’s time to create a detailed wedding timeline.

The big day is approaching! The wedding planner will liaise with all suppliers to coordinate a seamless day. Welcome bags and favours, featuring local Irish gifts, should be prepared for guests. Given Ireland’s unpredictable weather, it is also essential to have a backup plan for any outdoor ceremonies.

For those working with a shorter timeline…

A destination wedding in Ireland can still come together within 6 to 9 months, or even 3 to 6 months if you’re flexible with your choices. However, last-minute weddings with fewer than three months of planning may require compromises on venue and supplier availability.

Ireland is a magical place for a destination wedding, but planning requires careful timing. The more time you allow, the smoother the experience will be. That said, with a skilled planner by your side, you can accomplish an even shorter destination wedding planning timeline and the results will still be an unforgettable wedding. So, how much time do you really need? Ideally 12 to 18 months, but with the right guidance, your dream Irish wedding can come together beautifully, no matter your timeline.

Sláinte to your wedding planning journey!

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Cinzia Bruschini

Why Ireland is the Destination Wedding Hotspot of 2025

by Harmony Walton

Ireland has long been a dream destination for couples seeking romance, history, and breathtaking landscapes. As we step into 2025, the Emerald Isle has firmly cemented itself as the top choice for destination weddings. From its enchanting castles to its warm hospitality, Ireland offers an unrivalled experience for couples looking to say ‘I do’ in a setting steeped in charm and elegance. Here’s why Ireland is the destination wedding hotspot of 2025.

Timeless Beauty and Diverse Landscapes

Ireland’s natural beauty is unparalleled, offering couples a range of stunning backdrops for their big day. Whether it’s the dramatic Cliffs of Moher, the serene shores of Lough Tay, or the rolling green hills of County Kerry, the landscape provides an effortlessly romantic setting. In 2025, there is a growing trend for weddings that embrace the outdoors, and Ireland’s diverse scenery ensures the perfect location for every couple’s vision—be it a coastal elopement or a grand castle affair.

Exclusive Castle Venues

A wedding in an Irish castle is the epitome of fairytale romance. With venues such as Ashford Castle, Luttrellstown Castle, and Ballynahinch Castle offering luxury, exclusivity, and rich history, Ireland continues to captivate couples seeking regal elegance. As the destination wedding hotspot of 2025, there is an increasing demand for private, bespoke wedding experiences, and Ireland’s castles provide the ideal mix of grandeur and intimacy.

A Foodie’s Paradise

Irish cuisine has evolved into a world-class culinary experience, making it an attractive feature for wedding celebrations. With farm-to-table dining, artisanal cheeses, fresh seafood, and an ever-expanding selection of fine Irish whiskeys and craft gins, Ireland is the perfect location for food-loving couples. In 2025, the trend of immersive culinary experiences continues to grow, with couples opting for multi-course tasting menus and personalised farm-to-table feasts.

Luxury Meets Tradition

Modern couples are embracing weddings that blend contemporary luxury with deep-rooted traditions. Ireland offers this balance beautifully. Think five-star manor houses serving Michelin-starred cuisine, lavish floral installations inspired by the wild Irish landscape, and ceilidh bands bringing guests to their feet for an unforgettable night of dancing. The blend of old and new is what makes Ireland stand out as the perfect 2025 wedding destination.

Ease of Planning for International Couples

One of the reasons Ireland is set to be the leading wedding destination of 2025 is the ease of planning for international couples. With well-connected international airports, a strong network of luxury wedding planners, and a host of world-renowned venues offering all-inclusive packages, organising a wedding in Ireland has never been more seamless. Many venues cater specifically to destination weddings, ensuring a stress-free experience for couples and their guests.

An Unforgettable Guest Experience

A wedding in Ireland isn’t just an event—it’s an experience. From pre-wedding whiskey tastings to post-wedding adventures along the Wild Atlantic Way, couples can create an itinerary that ensures their guests enjoy every moment. In 2025, destination weddings are about more than just the big day—they’re about crafting an entire experience, and Ireland delivers on every front.

As the world embraces immersive, luxurious, and meaningful weddings, Ireland stands at the forefront as the ultimate destination for couples tying the knot in 2025. Are you sold? Then you’ll want to know my 5 Essential Tips for Hosting Your Destination Wedding in Ireland. With its timeless charm, breathtaking venues, and unparalleled hospitality, it’s no wonder Ireland is the top choice for couples seeking a wedding to remember.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Dermot Culhane, Fred Marigaux, Brett Harkness and Eric Kelley

What is the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony?

by Harmony Walton

Breathtaking weddings are steeped in Ireland’s history, culture, and enchantment. One of the most beautiful and symbolic Irish wedding traditions that many couples incorporate into their ceremonies is the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony. This age-old custom is not only a romantic nod to Ireland’s past but also a meaningful way to bless the couple’s union with love and harmony.

The Significance of Wedding Bells in Irish Tradition

Wedding bells have long been associated with Irish nuptials. Historically, the ringing of bells was believed to ward off evil spirits and ensure a marriage filled with good fortune. The bell’s chime was also thought to bring clarity and peace, reminding couples of their vows during times of difficulty. In modern weddings, this tradition has evolved into the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony—a heartfelt moment that adds a touch of magic and sentimentality to the celebration.

How the Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony Works

During the ceremony, a small handbell—often crafted from fine silver or a family heirloom—is rung either by the officiant, the couple, or even their guests. This gentle chime symbolises the blessings of love, unity, and everlasting happiness. There are a few different ways to incorporate this tradition into a luxury wedding, and I often work with couples to personalise it to suit their style and preferences.

The Couple’s Bell Ringing: Just before or after exchanging vows, the couple rings the wedding bell together, symbolising their commitment and the joyful beginning of their life as one.

The Guests’ Blessing: Small bells can be distributed among guests, allowing them to ring them in celebration as the couple shares their first kiss or is pronounced married. This creates a stunning auditory experience, reminiscent of church bells ringing in the distance.

A Keepsake Bell: Many couples choose to have a specially designed wedding bell engraved with their names and wedding date, serving as a cherished keepsake that they can ring during anniversaries as a reminder of their vows.

Ringing Away Disputes: A charming interpretation of this tradition suggests that whenever a disagreement arises, ringing the wedding bell will bring harmony back to the marriage, reinforcing the values of love and understanding.

Incorporating Wedding Bells into an Irish Wedding

For couples seeking an exquisite destination wedding in Ireland, the Wedding Bell Ceremony adds a unique cultural and sentimental touch. I often recommend custom-made bells from renowned Irish artisans, featuring intricate Celtic designs, family crests, or even a touch of gold for added opulence. Some couples may choose to incorporate the bell motif into wedding stationery, table décor, or favours to further enhance this elegant theme.

At some of Ireland’s most luxurious wedding venues—think fairytale castles, stately manors, or coastal retreats—the gentle chime of wedding bells can beautifully echo through historic halls or open landscapes, making the moment truly unforgettable.

A Tradition That Stands the Test of Time

The Irish Wedding Bell Ceremony is a poetic and symbolic way to honour Irish heritage while embracing a timeless ritual of love and unity. What I love most about this tradition is knowing the sweet sound of wedding bells will forever resonate as a blessing upon your marriage. Here’s to your lifetime of harmony and happiness.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by John Cain Photography

Cheese as a Wedding Cake – A Luxurious Twist

by Harmony Walton

As a luxury wedding planner in Ireland, I’ve seen my fair share of trends come and go (and I talk about some of my favourites in this article on PopSugar), but one that has taken hold in recent years is the delightful and unexpected trend of using cheese as a wedding cake. This indulgent alternative to the traditional sweet cake is perfect for couples who want to offer something unique and memorable at their wedding reception. With the rise of farm-to-table dining and a renewed appreciation for artisanal Irish produce, cheese towers have become a symbol of luxury, sophistication, and a celebration of Ireland’s rich culinary heritage.

A Bespoke Culinary Experience

What makes a cheese wedding cake so alluring is its ability to offer a completely bespoke experience. Unlike traditional cakes, where you may be limited by flavour profiles and decoration, a cheese tower allows for endless customisation. As a planner, I work closely with artisan cheese suppliers to curate a selection that reflects not only the couple’s taste preferences but also their story.

Many Irish couples enjoy incorporating local cheeses into their tower, paying homage to Ireland’s world-renowned dairy industry. A typical tower might feature rich Cashel Blue from Tipperary, a smooth and creamy St Tola goat’s cheese from County Clare, and a strong, crumbly Cahill’s Porter cheese, which adds both flavour and visual intrigue with its marbled appearance. For couples wishing to indulge their guests further, I recommend adding imported cheeses to complement the Irish offerings—perhaps a delicate French Brie or a robust Manchego.

Designing the Perfect Cheese Cake

Just like a traditional wedding cake, a cheese cake can be a showstopping centrepiece. As a luxury wedding planner, my role is to ensure that the cheese tower is not only delicious but also visually stunning. Each cheese wheel is carefully chosen for its shape, colour, and texture, crafting a tiered masterpiece that rivals any confection. Garnishing the cheese tower with fresh fruits, figs, berries, and even edible flowers can add vibrant splashes of colour, while rustic elements like fresh herbs or leaves provide a natural, organic feel.

For couples desiring an extra touch of opulence, I often suggest pairing the cheese tower with artisanal breads, crackers, and a selection of chutneys and honey. A beautifully designed grazing table featuring these accompaniments, along with cured meats and pâté, creates an interactive dining experience where guests can serve themselves throughout the evening.

A Unique Take on Tradition

One of the most appealing aspects of a cheese wedding cake is its ability to turn tradition on its head without sacrificing elegance. Many couples like to keep the ceremonial cutting of the cake, but instead of the classic sweet slice, they slice into a large wheel of cheese. This can be a fun and memorable moment for the couple, and it invites guests to partake in a one-of-a-kind culinary experience. As an alternative, I often suggest serving the cheese cake alongside a more traditional dessert table, offering both sweet and savoury options to guests.

Pairing the Cheese Cake with Wine

A cheese wedding cake is more than just a savoury treat; it can also become an integral part of a couple’s overall dining experience. As part of my planning services, I often collaborate with expert sommeliers to pair each tier of the cheese cake with wines that enhance and complement the flavours. Whether it’s a crisp Sauvignon Blanc to cut through the richness of a Brie or a full-bodied Bordeaux to pair with a mature cheddar, these pairings can elevate the dining experience and add another layer of luxury.

The Perfect Ending to a Wedding Feast

In Ireland, where the landscape lends itself to exceptional dairy produce, a cheese wedding cake is the perfect way to honour local craftsmanship while adding a luxurious twist to a couple’s big day. Whether used as a savoury centrepiece or incorporated into an elaborate grazing table, this trend is a testament to how versatile and sophisticated Irish weddings can be.

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Brosnan Photographic and Aspect Photography

2025 Destination Wedding Location Ideas: Luxury Celebrations in Portugal, Mallorca, and Ireland

by Harmony Walton

As a luxury wedding planner, one of my greatest joys is curating unforgettable experiences in some of the most stunning locations across Europe. For couples seeking the perfect destination to say “I do” in 2025, there are many options that offer unparalleled beauty, charm, and bespoke opportunities to make your special day truly extraordinary. Let me guide you through a few of my favourite 2025 destination wedding location ideas.

Portugal: Sun-kissed Elegance

Portugal continues to captivate couples with its warm climate, golden coastlines, and rich cultural heritage. For 2025, the Algarve’s sun-drenched beaches remain a timeless choice, but Lisbon and Sintra are emerging as luxury wedding hot spots. (Here are some I think are brilliant.)

When you think Portugal, think Lisbon. Historic palaces and chic rooftop venues overlooking the city’s iconic terracotta rooftops create the perfect backdrop for a cosmopolitan celebration. Sintra, with its fairy-tale castles such as the Palácio de Pena, create a romantic and whimsical setting amidst lush, rolling hills.

One unique trend I’ve seen is incorporating Portugal’s famous gastronomy into the wedding menu. Fresh seafood, pastel de nata desserts, and world-class wines. A live Fado performance adds a soulful touch. These are the kinds of memories that guests will treasure forever.

Mallorca: Mediterranean Bliss

Mallorca, the crown jewel of the Balearic Islands, is a haven for couples dreaming of a sun-soaked wedding with a touch of glamour. This Mediterranean paradise combines natural beauty with sophisticated luxury. Imagine exchanging vows at a clifftop villa overlooking the azure sea or hosting a reception in a historic finca nestled among olive groves and vineyards. The island’s luxury hotels offer impeccable service and exclusivity for couples wanting a flawless experience.

For 2025, consider embracing Mallorca’s bohemian-chic vibe. Decor inspired by the island’s natural palette—terracotta, creamy whites, and lush greens—pairs beautifully with al fresco dining under twinkling fairy lights. Serve your guests local delicacies like sobrassada and ensaïmada, paired with Mallorcan wines. You can’t go wrong in Mallorca.

Ireland: Timeless Romance

Ireland’s romantic allure will forever make it one of the best destination wedding locations. In 2025, it continues to enchant couples who desire an elegant wedding steeped in tradition and natural beauty. In Ireland, there are so many options to consider. Imagine a ceremony in the grandeur of a castle like Ashford or Adare, followed by a reception in a stately ballroom adorned with cascading floral arrangements. For those seeking something more intimate, a clifftop vow exchange offers breathtaking views and timeless wonder for all who attend.

One trend gaining momentum in Ireland is the use of seasonal touches that celebrate the country’s rich heritage—autumn weddings featuring warm, earthy tones and hearty menus, or spring ceremonies bursting with wildflowers and fresh, local fare. (Much like Aimee and Shane’s autumn wedding at Adare Manor.)

Why Choose One? Combine Them!

For couples truly seeking a once-in-a-lifetime experience, a multi-destination wedding is a rising trend. Begin with a chic civil ceremony in Lisbon, host a pre-wedding soirée in Mallorca, and conclude with a grand celebration in an Irish castle. The possibilities are as limitless as your imagination.

Each of these 2025 destination wedding location ideas offers a unique canvas for your dream day. Let’s make it extraordinary together!

Slán go Fóill,

Tara

Images by Story of Eve and Anée Atelier